Lynne--don't think all the bugs are out of this site yet. I posted last night but don't see it--oh well. Doing ok this week. Hope for another loss this week. I'd like to lose 20 pounds before vacation mid-March. Thats about 2 pounds a week. Of course--it's one pound at a time:) Exercise is still going ok. MIL had her surgery today--don't know how successful yet--they did have to amputate one toe--the docs aren't expecting any miricles--but they hope it will help with the pain--time will tell.
Let me know how it's going for you--I'm off to the lake again in the morning--talk on Sunday--Jo:wave:

I lost again at my weigh in, but only .3 kilos, which was a lot less than I'd hoped for, and can't help feeling disappointed. I hate the continual mental torment and arguments we suffer, trying to lose weight!

The last couple of days haven't been too good. I MUST go for a walk tomorrow. I've been so busy organising my studio and working in the garden. All good exercise, but walking is the best. Our "class" on Wednesday was about exercise and how you should incorporate various activities during the week, and how many bonus points you should aim for, and walking 3-4 days a week alongside other things was definitely recommended.

I've got a mini-goal to lose 5.7 kilos before Feb 14th, which is Becky's 1st Birthday, and of course, Valentine's day. Not getting there as quickly as I'd hoped, but might get close! Once I reach that weight loss, I'll have lost 10% of my starting body weight! Which means I'll have lost 11.3 kilos!! (That's 24.86 pounds)

I hope your MIL recovers well. Does she have cancer?

I'm going to read the paper and watch a bit of tv. We were around at my sister's having a little birthday party for Marc - he turns 30 on Tuesday, so we had a little family surprise party for him. Being around my family always exhausts me, so I'm looking forward to snuggling down and relaxing with a cup of tea!

Enjoy your weekend at the lake. What do you do there, besides rake millions of leaves!? :lol:

Night!

Lynne--no leaf raking this time of the year. We fish thru the ice in the winter. We have a small house on runners that is pulled onto the lake and holes are cut thru the ice. It's a lot of fun--when the fish are biting--which they weren't this weekend. The house has beds, cook stove and heater. We also have a small black and white tv, radio etc. Our house is 10 feet X 18 feet. We came home last night--weather was turning wicked. We are warm and cozy in the house--but hubby was afraid with the snow drifting like it was that we wouldn't be able to get off this morning--would have had to wait for the plows. No MIL doesn't have cancer. She has cogestive heart problems and a pacemaker. Her circulation is very bad from her heart which was causing the poor cirulation to her feet. They did the best they could re-opening the artieries to her feet--not a cure but hopefully a little better blood flow.
Congratulations on the loss!!!! You can make your 10% by Valentiines day--just get in the walkling!!! I'll let you know where I'm at tomorrrow. Didn't weigh this morning. Too many points YESTERDAY! Not that I can un-do THAT in a day! Have a good weekend--whats left of it--are you still working on-call?? What did you call it--day work??
Jo:wave:

It is really nice to know that as much as things change some things stay the same!!!!!! I can't believe ya'll are still here.
I don't have a lot of time to post, but wanted to drop by and say HI!!!! :wave:
Barry and I are doing well.....we are trying to get pregnant. Been trying for about 9 months now w/ no luck. Doctor has started me on Clomid so we will see what happens.
I am working two jobs now. The one I had when I was a regular here and now part time as a Pampered Chef consultant.
My screen name is wannabeloser and I am living up to the name.....I am a complete loser at this weight loss/maintenance game. I have gained 17 lbs back and even though I care, I seem to be at a complete loss as to what to do about it. I have absolutely no motivation anymore and just keep hoping that I will hurry and get pregnant so that I wont have to worry about it anymore----isnt that terrible!!!!!!

So tell me what's going on here.....Are Jo and Lynne the only two left???? Where's everyone else?????

Am I welcome back even though I am a complete slacker and failure----lol

Welcome back Chris--it's great to hear from old friends. Yes it is just Lynne and I right now. Kermie posts once in a while. She lost her Dave last May to cancer and has been pretty much absent since then. Has a new man in her life--not sure if it's companionship or love at this point, but they do spend a lot of time together--horseback riding, cross country skiing etc. Her weight is still off--as far as I know. Her daughter got married in Aug. I get some mail from her on and off--usually jokes etc. I'm still struggling--gain, lose, gain. :devil: Lynne is back at WW and doing pretty well--we both had a rough year--Lynnes little one will be 1 on Feb. 14th--hard to believe how fast the time has gone by. Hope you and Barry can report a new little one to us here soon. Planning a long vacation in March. Need to lose at least 20 before then or I;ll be buying all new clothes--YUCK!!!! Why do I let myself go like this. I am still exercising faithfully. Walking 3 mornings a week with my friend Chris--but the food aspect is never good for long--
Are you still going to WW?? Just a little something to think about--I have a number of friends who struggled with conception then got PG as soon as they joined a weight loss program---I sometimes wonder if it's because they start concentrating on the diet and worry less about a baby ---then BOOM!! it happens.
Welcome back!! Hope you continue to drop by--we'd love to help re-motivate you--IF YOU RE-MOTIVATE ME-- :idea:
Lynne--how did this weeks weigh in go?? I missed weighing on Monday--had such a terrible weekend I didn't dare step on the scale.
Talk later--keep posting Chris--
Jo:wave:

Oh, Jo, I am so sad to hear about Dave!!!!! Poor Kermie!! I am glad she is getting out and about though, gosh, I am always at a loss for words with death.

I have thought about going back to WW but really dont have the money right now. Also, thursdays are the meeting nights here and that is a popular Pampered Chef party night and I really need the money, sooooooooo. I have tried doing it on my own, but can usually only manage to string 2-3 days together OP. I did at least make it to the gym last night for a class. I think it would help me a great deal if I would just start going back there on a regular basis, but I always manage to find a dozen excuses......but I felt so good doing class last night and afterwards was proud of myself for going, so maybe that will help motivate me. I am starting to drink my water again and am drinking green tea in the mornings instead of coffee. So at least I am starting to think a little heathier again---Baby steps, right?
As for the baby making.....I wish not thinking about it so much were that easy. The doctor has me charting my temps everyday, using a fertility montor (which requires testing first morning urine about 10-15 days each month) and charting our love making habits. and of course taking the steroid that is supposed to bring on ovalation which I dont do on my own without the medicine. SOOOOO it is a little hard to NOT think about it so much---LOL. I guess some people need to wear glasses to correct their eyesight and some of us need help making babies---LOL. I am know that it will happen in time and am not too worried about it. As a matter of fact I have even thought that if it didnt happen for a few more months that would be better for us financially.

I can not believe that Lynne's little one is almost a year old---gosh, time does fly!!!!!!! I am glad she is doing well with her program.
Maybe coming back here will help to motivate me again!

I talk to you soon!

Chris--glad your posting again. I KNOW where your coming from with your 2-3 days OP. I did string 9 in a row 2 weeks ago--haven't been close since :( Maybe tomorrow! Walking in the morning--on a M-W-F- schedule for that and been pretty faithful since about Nov. 1st. Bitter cold here right now--so it's walking before the local mall opens. At Christmas they were opening early so we were getting in a little more time--but every little bit helps. Bet it's hard on party nights with Pampered Chef--you need to prepare yummy stuff for the party--right??? I havent been to a party in years but I do order the little paring knives on a regular basis. just love them. Keep one in my lunch box for cutting up my fruits etc. Have 2 at home and 2 at the lake--how about a challenge???? Lets strive for 5 good days next week and 3 days of exercise??? Are you in??? :strong:
Lynne--where are you???
Talk tomorrow.
Jo:wave:

As long as the challenge is next week and not starting today---LOL!!!!! OK, sure, count me in!
I love Pampered Chef products! You should try the Apple wedger for your apples! You know the actual party isn't so hard on me, cause I never eat at the shows--by the time I finish taking orders the food is usually gone! But the bad thing is I dont have time to eat before the show so on the way home I am starved so stop and get something from a fast food joint!
Got to run....my mom is on the phone and I cant do two things at one time!

Chris--the fast food thing is a downer. You can make healthier choices at most now but eating that late isn't ever good :( You should start planning a little better on party nights--picking up frozen the day before the party that you can pop in the micro before you go or something---cooking extra the night before so you have leftovers to re-heat in a hurry---how many nights a week do you usually have parties??? I have an apple wedger at work--I do love it! O.K. it a challenge--Monday morning for sure--Lynne--hope you pick up on this. It will be a challenge for me=--lots of extra stress at work next week--but I WILL NOT LET THAT STAND IN THE WAY :nono:
It's the weekend and I'll be busy so won't be posting again until Monday--started on my tax stuff tonight--what a headache! To the lake in the morning and company on Sunday. Have a good one ladies--STAY OP :lol:
Jo:wave:

Chris! It's so great to hear from you again! :D You are certainly welcome to join us - I figure our thread is about friendship, regardless of where you're at with your weight loss (or gain! ;) ) Jo and I have certainly gone through our ups and downs, but it's really nice to know you can come in here, and not be judged. And it does help. Just knowing there are other people out there going through the same struggles as you can give you the motivation you need.

I'm definitely up for the exercise challenge. I said to Marc that I am not doing well with that at all, considering how determined I was a couple of months ago. So we talked about how I can make it happen, so that it stays regular. Basically I said that if I don't get my shower in before taking Josh to school, it might not happen until after lunch cos of looking after Becky, and the fact that I feel too crusty for walking until I've had my morning shower - wakes me up! So we agreed that as soon as I get up to go and have my shower, and he'll look after Becky, so that as soon as I get back from taking Josh I can go for my walk. I'm very lucky to have such a supportive partner who's home to give me the time I need.
Chris, WW say that as long as you can get 3 - 4 good walks in a week, as long as maintaining a good food plan, you will get good results. I was thinking about your party. Maybe you SHOULD have a couple of the nibbles on offer. That way you won't feel so hungry when you leave. Also, have a couple of good snacks in your bag for the drive home. I find a nice cold bottle of water and a WW meusli bar really helps.
I've learned that tracking is soooo important, as difficult as it can be. But WW have this new little book where you can track your points and food groups, without having to log everything you eat. It just has a running total, and you cross the points off as you have them, within your point limit. That's really helped for me. I know the cost is difficult, but I found it hard to do on my own too.

I really wish you guys luck with your baby making. I've always been very fertile, so I don't know what it's like to go through what you guys are, but I can imagine how frustrating and hard it must be. I heard a funny one once - sneak out of the house with your partner and go "parking" and do it in the back of your car... hee hee - they reckon if you "pretend" to be naughty and hope not to be caught, that you're bound to get pregnant! lol Anyway, best of luck to you!!! I have heard that weight loss can help get you pregnant, but everyone's different. Would you believe I actually LOST weight when pregnant??!! Go figure!

Jo, that house on the lake sounds so COOL! Never heard anything like it! Pity you didn't get any fish - what type are there? Can you eat them?

I'm not working, but I am going to start applying for jobs - something part time to bring in some extra cash.

Josh starts school tomorrow - grade 2! I must admit I'm glad he's heading back - he's got too much bottled up energy! lol

Last couple of weeks haven't been the best, but I have to share a little success story - today I felt like some chocolate, so Josh and I got a few bits and pieces out of the cupboard to have while we watched a movie. And all I had was a couple of bits of chocolate and a handful of Skittles, and that was enough!!! Normally I'd polish off the plate and want more!!!! I have found that although I still enjoy my "special treats" I don't need anywhere near as much as I used to. My binges are not as frequent, and certainly a lot more under control. I reckon I will never have the urge to eat a carrot when depressed and feel like eating, but at least I have cut the quantity down!!!!

Jo, I hope your mum has a quick and good recovery. It must be worrying!

I didn't go to my weigh in last week, and I know that my weight loss won't be the best - but hopefully something! I walked yesterday, and ran around with the kids at the park today. Plan on going for a walk tomorrow and will hopefully make it every day!

Good to talk to you both, and catch up tomorrow!

Night pals! :D

Hey Lynne--It's nice having Chris back, isn't it??? Been doing ok on the exercise this week. We went fishing again this weekend and did get some nice perch. Yes we do eat them. We also fish for walleye--but didn';t catch any of them this weekend. Finally found a good spot to put the ice house--but we didn't get to fish for very long--bad weather came in earlier than expected--we spent the night--then left about 11 am. Would have liked to stay until sundown--maybe this weekend. Had lots of snow the last two days--its so pretty and good exercise too--shoveling and playing--
How long do the kids go to school there? Here it's from early Sept until early June. They have some time off for Christmas (usually a week or 2) And a few other days here and there for holidays, teacher workshops etc. Is Bec walking yet??
Chris how's your program this week so far???
Talk later--things to get done at home
Jo:wave:

Jo, what is Walleye? Never heard of it! :lol: Don't you love talking to people from overseas!

Our schooling has 4 terms, and ends about 1 week before Christmas, and he's just gone back now, so 6 weeks holiday. Between terms they have 2 weeks. We get so hot here over Christmas so I guess it makes sense! Mind you, we've had quite a mild summer by comparison. Having really nice days of around 27 degrees Celcius. I don't know what that is in your terms.

I had my weigh in today and gained .2 kilos, which is about .44 pounds. Not much I know, but still a gain.. DOH! But it's made me more determined to lose this week. I didn't walk today but a huge walk going to my Chiropractor yesterday, and anticipate walking every day if I can.

It's great to have Chris back, and I'm hoping Kermie will join us again soon. I'm so glad we are still in touch. I love being able to talk to you guys about my daily battles. Hopefully one day we'll all meet.

I'm off to bed. Talk tomorrow!

Lynne

Thank you to you both for welcoming me back with open arms......Yes Lynn, it is about friendship and not the weight loss journey. I guess I was a little afraid to come back b/c I had been such a steamroller and a sucess with the program way back then.

Jo, not doing very well with the challenge this week. We got hit Sunday with lots of Snow and Ice. Have been unable to leave my yard since Sunday, so exercise was out and as far as the eating......well, lets just say I have been cooking lots of stick to your ribs, warm up your belly food!!!! SORRY!!!!!!

AND now it looks like I am not going to be able to follow the WW program EVEN if I could get motivated to do it......I got two positives on two at home pregnancy tests this morning. I will have to call the doctor and set a time for blood work to confirm, but it is looking pretty good. So it looks like, if doctor says I am, that I will be trying to eat healthy for the baby and me, but not worrying about losing weight. I am so excited and yet so nervous that the at home tests were wrong. I will not believe it until the doctor confirms it. Well, I had better run. It is almost 11am and I havent even had breakfast yet, my belly is rumbling......I will go have a bowl of oatmeal and an orange......That sounds healthy!!!!

Lynne--a walleye is a freshwater fish in the perch family. Very tasty--not fishy tasting. Hubby fillets them out so there are no bones. Really good and healthy! Having them for dinner tonight--
Chris--I sure hope a big congratulations is in order :cb: :bravo: The home tests are pretty accurate. But it isn't a reason not to watch it--just concentrate on healthy eating. I lost weight with two of my preggers--and at that time I wasn't overweight--go figure! The middle one was another story--kept telling myself I would lose so I needed to eat more to make sure I didn't lose too much :devil: gained 50 pounds with that one! Oh well--a good way to keep it in prospective is to tell yourself that only good, healthly foods will go in--babies don' need empty, unhealthy calories! And they HATE SUGAR!! :chef:
Still in a deep freeze here--but I did walk before work at the mall--and shoveled out the mailbox tonight--eating---well that could be better :(
Get on your walking shoes girls--it's still the best workout around--
Talk tomorrow
Jo:wave:

Well, I will be going to the Doctor in a few to confirm what I already know. I have taken 4 tests here at home and the Rabbit has died--LOL.

Jo: Thank you for your advice..... I know that I need to eat healthly and not just use my pregnancy as an excuse to eat anything and everything. I really want this little one to get the right stuff. I am going to really try to eat lots of veggies, fruits, protein, and drink lots of water. It really isnt much different from the ww plan if you think about it...it just isnt on a points system to lose weight. I also know that whatever weight I put on during this time will have to come back off down the road. That is motivation enough for me not to over do it.

Well, I need to run....it is 8:15am and I need to be at the dr at 9am. Havent even dried my hair yet.

Hey Lynn!!!!

Hope I will have time soon to really sit down and chat