Ok, I am turning 40 in June and I am SICK and TIRED of being FAT!!!! I am 5'3 and weight 270. I am married to my high school sweetheart for 11 years and we have a 7 year daughter. My issues with my weight are really starting to effect our relationship. I want to lose weight and get healthy but I have no motivation, no energy and no will power. I have membership to Curves but I would like to have buddy to keep me going. Anyway, I need help getting started. Please help me!!

Hi I'm Lisa and I am 40, and I have 7 kids ranging from 22-4. I need to lose major belly fat and do nn not want to go the surgical route . I am trying to get past my non motivation feelings. So I hear ya on encouragement ! Here's to motivation !