Hi Debsintx!
Although I don't know your age, I know you're a gramma, so if you are 50 or older, be check out the 50+ sub-forum under Support Groups They have a chat thread there that is very active and I'm sure you'd feel very welcome:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/age-...den-girls.html. There are lots of other great forums and threads, so browse around and jump right in on any of them. Some are more active than others but I'm sure you'll see that. Good luck! You can do this!