I'm in serious need to surround myself with positive encouraging individuals!

A little about my story. I've been married for nearly 6 years. About 4 yrs in my husband told me that he found me unattractive and disgusting. (military) He soon deployed for a year. We he came back I surprised him with my weight down to 232lbs sz 12 from a 22. Sadly happiness was short lived when he surprised me admitting he had a affair.... I gained 25lbs back on.

WELL!!! Now I have a new man and new goals! Current B/f is military also (Military finds me lol) and he Deployed for 4 months. I am determine to finish my weight loss journey while he is away. Lately I've been hitting plateaus and a lot of negative influences. So i'm here for help and motivation!

Hi there! I'm new here too.

I just wanted to wish you the best! You can do this!

Welcom! I was sorry to read about the situation with your husband, but I hope that you know that his actions were not your fault. Good luck with your goals. Try participating in the "Chicks Up For A Challenge" forum for mini-goals