My background story:
I have been overweight for quite a few years now, well mainly since High School. I've tried everything, and have lost quite a bit of weight, especially after having my children, but managed to gain it back. Then I met my now husband, who can eat whatever, whenever, and never gain a pound. Foolish me, I tried to keep up with him. About 2 years in, I realized I was gaining alot of weight and it was time to change some things. I lost about 30 lbs, not completely what I wanted to lose, but enough for me.
Then, last year, in Oct. we found out I was pregnant. I was over the moon!! So excited. Unfortunately, the excitement didn't last. Dec came, and we found out that we were going to lose the baby. It was heart wrenching, and something that was really really hard on me. And when I am stressed or depressed, I binge eat. The binges lasted WEEKS! My husband became really concerned, and didn't know what to do. He didn't know where to begin or what to say.
Now, almost a year later, I've realized that I have to make a change for the two beautiful children that I have already, and for myself. I want to be healthy!! I want to look good!! I want to FEEL good!!
So here I am, ready to count calories, and drink tons of water, and exercise my buns (stomach, legs, arms, hips) off!!!
I lost my first baby when I was 6 months pregnant, and I know perfectly well about the grieving process involved. But, you're absolutely right. Your children need you to be present and healthy for them. I'm so happy to see you here and I look forward to hearing about your progress. There is a ton of great support here, no matter what you're looking for.