This is me...and my challenege

  • So my name is Kristen and I'm a young teen going into my adult life... I'm becoming a senior this year and so this is the time I want to get into a healthy good looking me... Support is something I really don't have in my house hold... My grandma and sister comment on my weight and body image and to them I'm not good enough... Being the way I am has really affected my self esteem and I was depressed for a while... I've decided to make a change this year and to drop at least 40 pounds by my high school graduation...
    Anyone who would like to talk and give advice and support I would love to talk to. I think that's something I've really needed.
    Thanks for reading!





  • Hello Kristen, I have just joined and I want to wish you luck I don't have any support in my family either so I know how you feel.
  • Welcome to you both! You will finding an amazing amount of support here!
    Have you chosen a food plan? Be sure to find a plan that you can stick to long term. Make small changes first, like drinking more water, eating more fruits and veggies and moving a little more. They will all add up.
    Best of luck to you!
  • Hi Kristen,
    Welcome to 3FC!
    I feel that I can completely relatr to you. In my family I'm the biggest daughter, grandaughter, neice, and cousin. My grandma always nit-picks at my weight and always makes the comment that I should go on a diet. I have an older brother who is fit because he's a marine, an older sister who is a beam pole because she has really high metabolism, and my kid brother is really big into sports so he's muscular. Standing next to them I look like a walking blob lol.
    But I love this website and I'm learning to love myself. I wish you happiness and success on this journey. If you ever need someone to listen I'm here and so are many other women going through what we are.
  • Welcome Kristen! I'm new here as well, and wish you much luck and support!
  • Thank you so much. It's nice to see how many people who don't even know me care and are so supportive. My weight has been a big thing in my life... I started out decent weight and then I gained a lot and I can't get rid of it. and over my junior year I was very depressed so learning to love myself and my body is something I really am working on