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Hello!, my name is Ally. I am 23 yrs old. I have struggled with my weight since i was little. I have tried so many things and nothing worked in the past until now. You see i always wanted to lose weight to feel pretty and look great, but now my new motivation is to be healthier. I think about all the diseases that obesity can trigger , and it scares me to be honest with you. I have recently started eating more veggies and fruits, and less junk. I also started to exercise almost everyday. I have lost 20 lbs since November and i've kept it off :)
i wanted to join this site to make friends that understand my struggles; almost all my friends are skinny and when i tell em about my weight struggle and i can tell they tired are of hearing it.
I am reaching out to all you girls that have any advice or suggestions that can help me get through this.

thanks

Welcome ally! I totally hear ya- I don't talk about weight loss like I used to because some people just don't get it.

My sister (who I love and I really think was trying to help) was just like "well why not just get surgery?" and my hubby was like "you can eat anything babe, just eat less" so for them- having never been overweight- they didn't get it.

So far I don't know your plan but as long as it's working keep it up!

thanks! i get that sometimes ppl don't understand something they cant relate to but it is hard to bottle up all the emotions at times, and that is why i am so happy my bf told me about this site. i'm just glad i can express myself here without having to worry about ppl judging me or simply saying to me " stop complaining and do something about it" ( sigh)

Ally, glad to have you join us! Since Chicks can be overwhelming at first, I suggest you look for a Support group, Chat, or Challenge to join. Small groups of friends to help keep you motivated and make it easier to get connected. Find one you like that fits your needs, or inspires you, and just post to join.

Hi Ally, welcome!! Im new too. Everyone is really friendly and helpful here ,im sure youll fit right in! xo