I'm new to the forum, I'm not sure where this is posted, or what not but what ever.

I used to have a load of confidence till I entered college, I didn't gain weight in college I actually lost weight. Reason why my confidence started lacking was because when I tried to get a job it felt as if they were literally judging me the minute I walked in the door and I was denied a job because of my hair color because extreme roots aren't allowed or unnaturalness. So I changed my hair back to natural which is light brown and tried my hardest to look more professional but still nothing... I'm not gonna slander the company, but I think I wasn't hired because of my height and weight, or maybe thats my insecurities.

Oh but I want to lose the weight to join the military and feel more confident again.
Oh and I'm an extreme insomniac, even though I don't look it at all. So if anyone could help me with sleep stuff... that'd be amazing.

hey welcome to 3fc! You will find PLENTY of support here. Just look through the support groups. I actually think im an insomiac too! I hardly ever get a good night's rest. What's been helping me is working out at night after i get off work. I work really long hours, so by the time i workout and get home im EXHAUSTED! lol

Naomi, Glad to have you join us. My advice is to look for a Support group, Chat, or Challange to join; small groups make it easier to get connected. Most sub-forums have groups covering almost every need, find one that inspires or motivates you and just post to join.

Thank you both. I really appreciate it. =]

But I have a question, how do I get to my inbox, or the part where I can see my profile, I'm so confused, lol.

Just click on quick links at the top then go to My Profile