Thisisit
 

Hello
I signed up because I am getting to the point where I am afraid to go certain places because of my appearance. I am supposed to get an award in two weeks but am thinking of not going due to my weight (pictures). I want to take a trip but wonder if the airline will make me pay for two seats.

I want to focus on losing weight and getting in shape.I was in a wreck many years ago and deal with back pain. I was about 60 pounds overweight then but have added 100 since the wreck. Anyway, I do not want to make excuses and settle for less. I know others in my situation have been succcessful in losing weight.

I need to change.

I look forward to reading your posts.

Thanks

Hi and welcome to 3FC!

I understand where you're coming from. You can do this. You have come to the best site for support, encouragement, advice, tips and more.

Good luck with your goals :cheer3:

Hugs
Michelle

Let's face the truth here - this will be hard. You willw ant to give up. You willg et frustrated. What you have to do is write down your true and deep reasons for doing this - the reasons that matter above all else. Put them in a prominent place and remind yourself of the reasons often. They will help with the frustration.
Lean patience. Lean to love yourself enpugh to give yourself the gift of a healthy body. Learn to enjoy exercise, weight training and eating properly.
In short, learn that you are worth the effort.
You can do this. You just have to want it bad enough.
Good luck!!!

Welcome! Born to be fine...that was excellent advice!

Best wishes thisisit...if you put pur heart and mind into it you can do it. Take your time and be realistic...dont expect change over night, thats my problem!

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This is a wonderful place and I have gotten lots of support and motivation!
It is full of wonderful people who will help you every step of the way.
Good Luck on your journey!

Thanks everyone. I appreciate the support and I hope I can help one day too.

Welcome to 3FC! :wave: I'm glad you're here! Surf around and settle in. We have forums based on age, eating plan, exercise, and more!

Be sure to check out the 100 lb Club and the 300 Club for lots of good support! And CONGRATS on the award!!! :bravo:

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@borntobefine - Your words are so true. Thank you.

Just by joining this community, you have added something that was not there before. Thank you for joining. :)