never had a man in my life
 

Hey everyone! Guess what? I just turned 21! Yay and yes I did get very drunk :dizzy: and I still weigh 219 pounds and I have basically been fat my entire life and because I am also extremely shy I never had a boyfriend. I never had a boyfriend and I am 21 years old and it makes me wander if I never had a boyfriend how in the heck would I ever get a husband:?: I know I will never be comfortable enough with myself to meet a man till I lose weight and feel good in my own body. I hope I can find couple of buddies on this site that I can talk to who will hold me accountable to this goal of losing weight and likewise I would do the same for you. :hug: I can't do this myself I have tried and the results are always failing and at the moment I am on a 6 week plan and I hope I can find a buddy who I can share this plan with. Most importantly through this journey I really want to find a partner who I can talk with when I mess up and all I need are words of encouragement to get me back on track and I don't expect anyone to be perfect so if you guys ever fall I would be more then happy to glue you back together. Thanks for reading my post and GOOD LUCK to everyone!:hat:

Hi Cherrios, welcome to 3FC! :welcome3:

I think the 20-somethings might be the perfect place for you. Happy late birthday, btw!

Hi and welcome to 3FC!

Happy belated birthday!!

Good luck with your goals :cheer3:

Hugs
Michelle

Welcome and good luck !

Hello, cheerios, and welcome! I agree that the 20-somethings forum would be a great place for you and I think that you'll find that not having a man in your life is not nearly as rare a condition as you might think.

Good for you for choosing NOW to change your habits and get healthy. You are young and you'll be spending many, many years as a slim, healthy woman because you have the wisdom to start early.

Happy Belated Birthday!! If you are committed to losing weight and you want to do it for YOU, not a man, you WILL do it!! Feel free to email me ane we can talk!
I committed myself to losing weight and getting healthy and I DID IT!! I'm finding it very easy to stick to my new lifestyle so if you want I can share my experiences with you and maybe it will work for you too! :)

It looks like you and I are about the same starting weight. I've lost the weight before, and I assure you, it can be done....

Now, I'm past the 21 mark... I'm 27. But I've been there! and not too long ago either :lol: I am married and raising my first child. I SWEAR my husband stumbled into my life the DAY I vowed to only worry about me. :yes: Men will come later. Forget about them and just focus on you.

If you would like to PM me, I'm more than willing to lend an open ear. Like I said, I've been there before, my early 20's were pretty rough... and maybe you need someone just a *little* older, to remind you that you will come out okay on the other side.

I remember turning 21 like it was yesterday...now Im 25. I applaud you for starting your weight loss journey now. I sometimes wish I hadn't waited so long. If you ever need encouragement or support I would be more than happy to help!