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  • Hello my name is Dee and i came here for support and motivation. I remember in highschool i used to be a good 220 lbs and then i lost it all because i had time and no man... haha.. and well now im 6 years older and i feel like i can't get back to the way i used to be.. I have a bf now and i an guessin he's supporting me but thing is i feel like its an insult at the same time.... i need motivation from women like me and tips on how to lose weight if you don't have the time or bundles of cash to buy tons of diet supplies
  • Welcome!!!
  • You've made a really good first step by coming here! The support here is outstanding. I wish you luck!

    (And it doesn't have to cost anything to lose weight! Walking or running is free and you have to buy food either way, right? I actually find that buying more fresh/whole foods and fewer packaged fatty/sugary foods saves me a good bit of money.)

    As a start, I would recommend that you just start documenting everything you eat, and I mean EVERYTHING! From a piece of gum to a soda to full meals. I use www.fitday.com for this, which is also free! I try to get in the habit of documenting everything first before I try to make changes, then I will know exactly where my problems are and therefore where I need to cut back.
  • Hi Dee and welcome to 3FC!

    I am sorry your boyfriend's support is insults. No one deserves that. But luckily you have landed at the best place on the net for support, encouragement, advice and tips.

    I understand a very tight budget but with careful planning, I believe, it can be done.

    I suggest the following forums -

    Diet Central - Here you can read and discuss various diet plans. http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/#diet-central

    Fitness Forums - Everything about exercise and fitness is found here and if you can't find it, just start a thread about it and people are always willing to jump in and help out
    http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/#fitness

    And for tons of motivation and advice, check out the Success Stories here - http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/#success-stories

    We are here for you and we believe in each and every person that is committed to changing their life for the better, including you. Now you just believe in yourself. We are cheering you on to victory

    Hugs
    Michelle