I can relate! The only plus is that as freebie airline upgrades have become more rare, I'm less and less concerned about scoring the upgrade! I'd usually rather have seat in the bulkhead or exit row anyway. Quite often there's more space than in F. And on the off chance that I get upgraded and my DH doesn't when we're traveling together, I can act supremely generous and give him the upgraded seat.
Oh, and when I do get the upgrade, at least I can get plenty of sparkling water.
