meant2b |
01-25-2012 08:34 AM |
Inhale - Exhale - Deep Breath!!!! I didn't finish reading all posts - WAY too exhausting!!!! :)
Maybe someone already mentioned it, but is someone interested in starting this thread over again? Either the same name or "100% OP" ? I think everyone agrees, it was a fantastic thread, as we all get discouraged and frustrated with those who really cheat and wonder why the program is so hard or wonder why they aren't losing and then it's so hard to 'get back on track'. Thanks to Wuv & Ishbel (and other non-cheaters) I too have been 100% OP and have the results to back it up! I couldn't be happier. Also, I was considering the possibility of having a drink or two this Friday night... thanks to your support (and a nurse friend of mine), I've already made the decision that I WILL NOT be having even 1 drink - that would be a CHEAT!
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Originally Posted by Survalia
(Post 4186469)
It makes me sad to think that you would feel like you do not have support on this forum simply because someone else cheated. If it is important to you to have a thread where no one has ever cheated then maybe there is room for that here. But I have to agree with meant2be about the "bad taste in the mouth." It feels kind of like an Us vs Them thing, which in my mind, means that someone is being judged. As a result, THOSE folks are not being supported. :?:
I would feel the same way (unsupported) about a coach who would drop me like a hot potato if I had a slip up. I certainly would hope someone would try to HELP me before tossing me aside. And, as for a clinic being closed because they refused to "fire" a client??? Well, I would be interested in some documentation.
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I just think this thread started off VERY poorly with the way 'no cheat' was layed out! Maybe I over reacted too, but it seemed pretty harsh and actually made me pretty upset due to the fact that I've had such amazing success and have made such a conscious effort NOT to cheat.
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Originally Posted by wuv2bloved
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WOW.....I guess you are right!!!...hahaha....guess I didn't realize how long I really have been on the program, its crazy!!!....This thread is kinda the same kinda thread I opened up with this thread http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/idea...-100-plan.html I felt that everyone was cheating and we had a lot of newbies started and I wanted them to see that IF you stick to plan 100% the weight will come off.
I too get VERY frustrated that we are seeing so much cheating going on, only after a few weeks or days on program. I don't say anything negative I just post something positive or say nothing at all because I don't want to offend anyone. YOU have to make the decision to do it for YOU, NO ONE can DO IT FOR YOU...THAT is what everyone has to realize
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Wuv, you always know just how to say it. I agree with all of this 100%!
Is it possible to start this over again? Ishbel... you want to take the lead on this one? I love your thery of a place called "home"!
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