Again, I'm not depriving myself of anything here either. I myself am a good cook too, so I've got that going for me. Had a craving for pancakes, so I made me some oatmeal-banana pancakes on Sunday. Had a craving for hotdogs, so I made me hotdogs yesterday, albeit veggie hotdogs, with wholegrain bread. And yes, I added some ketchup, damnit!
I'm also experimenting making cheesecake with low-fat and stevia. Experiments have thus far been not good enough, but I've yet to throw one away (so they were bearable, but nothing like the real deal yet).
As far as kids go, it's not like I want to deprive them from social gatherings, but I just don't feel like they need to get into contact with really fat and really sugared food. Lemonade and cola were not just things I drank at friends. Lemonade and cola were not just a weekend-thing. They were an everyday-thing. And that is what I advocate against. Also, caffeine is not for children, period. Nesquik, Nutella are by far the worst things ever. I drink chocolate milk, too, every day even! But chocolate soymilk. With little added sugars (and at least I'm fully aware of what it adds). Same goes with cereals, going to fastfoodrestaurants,.. It just isn't something for children. They shouldn't have to be introduced to these at such a young age.
It's not like I'd make an entire list of "this is good and this is bad" and then say "you can never eat this!". What I do want, is for my children to understand very early on that food is what you need to survive, and not because it tastes good and gives you a rush afterwards.
And it's like I said with sweet candy, I was never introduced to sweet candy at a young age and to this day and age, I still don't like it. Or rice. I have nothing against rice, I like rice, even, but it's something I will rarely ever make and if I do, I will never overeat on rice. Simply because my Mom never put rice on the table (she absolutely hates rice).
So, I do believe that, if you introduce kids to foods that are high in sugar and/or fat, they will be more likely to continue eating these in higher quantities for the rest of their lives. Whereas, if you let them explore themselves at an older age (pre-teens and older), they are more likely to maybe enjoy it, but not see it as a go-to food (like me and the rice).
I also wouldn't be devastated if I found out they had a pizza at some friends, once in a blue moon, but if they'd be eating pizza on a regular basis at friends... No, I'd rather not want that to happen. Or at least I'd want them to tell me my homemade pizza is ten times better than that delivery one.