My dh is having a birthday! He always, always, always says, "I don't want anything!"
I always try to get him a yummy cake, a card and sometimes a small gift. He literally runs into the house calling, "Where's my gifts?" He's joking, but I do think he'd be disappointed if I didn't get him anything.
He tells me before my birthday: "get whatever you want for yourself". His excuse is that he is too busy and doesn't know what I want.
I don't know, but somehow it just isn't the same thing. To go buy my own gift.
We also don't exchange Christmas gifts with each other.
Is this weird???? Is there anyone else out there that doesn't go all out for spouse's birthdays?