Arctic Mama, can you give some details? (Like do you make your own cleaners, what are some of your main foods, do you meal plan?
Up until last month we were not budgeting, so we just bought whatever. I did try to stick with a list and sale items, but I'm guessing we were spending maybe $1600 month for a family of 5, 6 in March. Not including DH and his eating out for 3 meals!!
This month I randomly picked a budget of $1000 for the month, or $500 per pay check (DH is paid twice a month, about 15 days for each pay period)
These are some of the things I've done so far, but we have 8 days till pay day and $170 left. I took the initial amount out in cash and worked from there.
Nearly everything is from scratch, but that's not new. I've been doing that as part of clean eating. Pancakes, waffles muffins for example, are cheaper from scratch and I freeze any left overs. For example, did egg plant parm, I cooked the eggplant a head of time and froze it. Much cheaper compared to $5.99 for 6 slices premade at our local grocery store. However we still have items not homemade for the kids, like mac n cheese or chicken nuggets. I know it is possible to make them ahead and freeze (healthier too) I just haven't yet.
We seem to be falling back on pasta a lot now, as its a lot for cheap. I have noticed that the healthiness of our food has decreased a bit. I'm not sure how to shop both healthy and frugal. I do still buy fresh veggies, but our meals used to be primarily meat and veggies, and now I've cut back on those and added a starch to stretch food. The starch, with the exception of the pasta is whole grains.
I shop all store brands, sales and coupons now. This has helped. We are not a member of a bulk store like costcos but are considering it.
The meals I prepare have less ingredients or more dried spices. If a meal calls for fresh onion celery peppers chopped, If I cant modify it OR find a way to really use up the rest of that for a another cheap meal, I skip it.
I include paper products in our budget and that included paper towels, napkins, tissues, toilet paper, diapers wipe soaps etc. I have cut back on paper towel use a lot by using rag and towels. Napkins I have considered using cloth napkins, I can even make them myself, I sew and have plenty of extra fabric. Its amazing how any napkins we go through daily with 5 people, especially the kids.
With one in diapers and one on the way, I have considered cloth diapering. This kind of stuff doesn't bother me, but DH doesn't seem thrilled with it.
Also we have given our selves a very generous budget of $50 per pay period of spending cash. I'd like to decrease this, and actually don't spend it myself, but DH is not liking any idea of not spending (swiping debit card) freely. This would be any fun money, purchase at a store while browsing, or in DH's case he is in a habit of getting breakfast on the way to work (like $5 for coffee and sandwich) and buying lunch as the work grill (about $8) then stopping for fast food on the way home if there is no dinner made. I prepare dinner most nights, but some night especially now feeling so sick (first trimester I am always dead on my feet), I just do sandwiches for dinner. (Dh get s home around 8p after dinner. He WILL NOT cook. EVER. He will not make a sandwich. If I don't make it he gets take out. Part of our issue is he wont make a sandwich for work either. (Well, maybe a few times a month. Even if I buy the lunch meat, he cannot be bothered.) This has gone on for years. If I don't not make his lunch, which I don't because in my opinion he can do it, then he buys out. Very frustrating.
Now since the new budget has been in place (for a week) he has been either packing lunch or spending from his cash, so I'm hoping his dedication will this time since he has been good with sticking to this. I'm thinking when his cash runs out near the end of this pay cycle he will just swipe his card but hoping I'm wrong!!!.
This sudden crack down is because I had just went back to work and we planned on staying in this house for a while and me staying at work and possibly increasing my hours over the next few years. This little one was a surprise

and we have decided I will be staying home again after s/he is born and probably for a longer time...and we have already out grown our house, but another means we have REALLY out grown our house. So we want to pay off the rest of our debt by next year, and save some $ for a new down payment plus without my extra income, which can be done but its going to require some attention to our extra spending.