I've tried both eHarmony (like a free trial version) and Match, and had much better luck with Match. It's my area though. All my matches on eHarmony were 150+ miles away! If you live in a big city you will have better luck I'm sure. I think the type of men I prefer would tend to be on eHarmony but Match it is when you live in the boondocks LOL.

Oh and I would completely avoid Plenty of Fish or (at least in this area, it's cool others had good luck with it) OKCupid. The free websites are full of questionables.

helpmelose How's your search going so far? Any fun dates?

I always jokingly call Match.com the "Man Menu" when I retell our 'falling in love' story. I ordered up what I wanted right from the Man Menu! ;) I asked out a great guy I found on Match.com and we married a year after our first date. Just had our 11th anniversary.