Though I'm not considering weight loss surgery I have a bone to pick with something I see constantly on all weight loss forums (not just this one). I really wish that people would stop bashing WLS as being "unhealthy" and that it doesn't work and most people gain it back yadda yadda. I feel like the purpose of this site and others like it is for support, not to have a contest as to who is doing what correctly. Different things work for different people. Can't we all just say "Good job!" when we do well and "Get back on the horse!" when we don't?
PS...statistically, your chances of gaining weight back from losing weight without surgery is exactly the same. They're all lifestyle changes, and any of us who fall off the wagon will face the same consequences.
Let's all get by with a little help from our friends, shall we?