I created a profile on an online dating site in July. A guy contacted me and I checked out his profile and thought he seemed interesting. I was a bit hesitant because he said he lived in another state but I decided not to let that be a determining factor. We progressed from messaging on the site, to emailing, to texting.
There were a few things that maybe seemed a bit "off" but nothing that really made me think it was anything more than me being overly cautious. He sent me an email this morning and there was one line that just seemed like it must have been something from a song or a poem. Curious, I googled that phrase.
I was utterly horrified when the search returned page after page of information about dating scammers and how the line that caught my attention is one that they use. I went to one of the sites that was listed in the google search (romancescam.com) and found that it has a feature that allows you to search by name, email, or picture. I uploaded one of the photos the guy had emailed me.....and there he was. I also learned that he has a facebook account using that same picture with a different name.
According to the website:
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It's the newest evolution of the Nigerian advance fee (419) scam. Instead of sending spam letters that promise millions for your assistance, these scammers are targeting single men and women who are searching for love online.
They use psychological tricks to lure their victims in, use poetry and even gifts to get them under their spell, then once you are there, will try to reach for your wallet, all the time declaring their "undying love" for you. The scam may take the form of asking you to cash a cheque for them through your bank account because they are "out of the country" and unable to cash it themselves, or they may come right out and ask you to send money to help them out of a fabricated "financial difficulty" they claim to be experiencing. These are all lies used to try to make them easy money from an unsuspecting victim.
I feel like such an idiot. Hope this info helps someone!It's the newest evolution of the Nigerian advance fee (419) scam. Instead of sending spam letters that promise millions for your assistance, these scammers are targeting single men and women who are searching for love online.
They use psychological tricks to lure their victims in, use poetry and even gifts to get them under their spell, then once you are there, will try to reach for your wallet, all the time declaring their "undying love" for you. The scam may take the form of asking you to cash a cheque for them through your bank account because they are "out of the country" and unable to cash it themselves, or they may come right out and ask you to send money to help them out of a fabricated "financial difficulty" they claim to be experiencing. These are all lies used to try to make them easy money from an unsuspecting victim.