Most of my friends are men, but I keep my distance now. A mutual best friend of ours, that we have known for 10 years, came on to me and kissed me, when me and my boyfriend were on a break. It took me by surprise because I had only ever seen him as like a brother to me. When my boyfriend found out he was really betrayed, because this guy had been around and close to us since high school. He had been telling me that my boyfriend was out with other woman, and doing the same to him about me. And what for? Apparently I was a piece of a%^ to him after all those years of friendship.

My point is, even if you think you may know his intentions do you? When our friend did that to me and my boyfriend (we got back together after a couple of weeks) it REALLY hurt me because I had never led on to anything other than friendship with him. When he came on to me I was flabbergasted because I NEVER would have thought in all those years he would do that to me, to us.

If I was you and maintaining a friendship was important than you should. But keep him at a distance to where he cannot hurt you or make you regret your decision.