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Originally Posted by BuddysBuddy
I guess I should have said "how hard is it to put your name on a card".
True enough, but as many people could criticize by saying "how hard is it to add a handwritten signature?. How hard is it to add a note of a line or two? How hard is it to add a newsletter? Why would anyone add a newsletter except to show off?
It's one of the reasons my husband and I stopped sending Christmas cards - because no matter what you choose, someone thinks it's inappropriate. You're either being impersonal, showing off, displaying too little sentiment (or too much)...
Many people think a signature with no personal note, is inexcuseably impersonal.
Others think even the generic handwritten "hope you have a great holiday" is too impersonal.
Then there's the cards themselves. Some folks are offended if the holiday cards are religious, others are offended if the cards AREN'T religious.
It got to the point, that buying, filling out, and sending the Christmas cards was more stressful than our wedding thank you notes.
Personally, I believe "social obligation" aspect of the holiday season has become ridiculous. Every year, I get closer and closer to boycotting Christmas altogether, because of the pressure to try to "make everyone happy, and to do "just enough" to avoid being accused of showing off or being stingy (with time or money).