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Boyfriends are complicated. lol. I have one but we're in a long distance relationship. I love and adore him but I also enjoy my alone time. People always wonder how I'm ok with the distance but I get to spend time on myself to go to the gym, study for hours for an exam, and get involved with my church. Plus, this makes when we DO see each other more amazing because we don't take the time for granted. When I'm done with school, we'll probably end up together but no rush. Back to your question, I decided to have a boyfriend because it's nice to have someone who you can let your guard down around and who can be there to support you during very very stressful situations.

I know why I want one. I want someone who I can do fun things with who I feel a connection with who can make me feel beautiful. My best friends cant make me feel sexy and beautiful. But I can do fun things with them.

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Originally Posted by sexychick (Post 4086033)

Alot of girls want a boyfriend but has anyone actually realized their reason for wanting a boyfriend? I was thinking today about that and I feel that getting a boyfriend would actually improve my life(not saying that I need one to live or anything)

That seems a fair assessment. I mean sure, you don't need a man, but if you want one and feel it would bring something to your life that would be a positive experience, then sure.

There's this taboo feeling in the world today among women that it's not "ok" to want to have a guy. I don't get this, because my life is so much better with my husband in it. Do I need him to survive? No, of course not. But I wouldn't trade him for the world either. He enriches my life like nothing else ever could, and that to me is something I've always wanted since I can remember: someone to share my life with in a positive way.

I am actually divorced and re-married.. the divorce didn't sour me on the process of finding someone to share my life with, it just made me a lot more picky the next time around ;)

I never have really wanted a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, but I've liked guys and wanted to give them a try. :p

I guess I don't want a boyfriend because I do LIKE being single. I'm willing to sacrifice being single for a guy if I like him, though. I can't really be sure what I want I suppose, because I've never had a boyfriend before.

There's this guy in my martial arts class... golly he's cute ;) hehehe