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I'd describe this guy as WASP-y.

http://armie-hammer.com/media/billy/04.jpg

(The gentleman's name is Armie Hammer. I think there's a numeral after his surname, which is a dead giveaway.)

http://tengossip.com/wp-content/uplo...rmie-smile.jpg

Yeah, this was pretty much my shopping list for a guy, about 20 years ago. But then I ended up in love (successively, not simultaneously) with two guys whose names ended in vowels & who both confessed for me sheepishly that they used to really admire Tony Manero in "Saturday Night Fever."

[Compare me with Armie & you'll probably get it. He's prettier, though ;-)]

The mind goes off to the catalog to order a particular model, but the heart is really into garage sales.

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Originally Posted by saef (Post 3712800)

Now I'm older &, with lessons learned, I'm thinking more in generalities. He has to be a good person. Decent. Warmth helps. He has to be able to see the little ironies in life. If he can't laugh, it's going to be difficult to be with him for more than an hour or so. I don't want a narcissist. I don't want someone who'll weigh me down -- someone who's withdrawn & depressed & requires my pushing & pulling him to get him out of doors & away from a screen. I'm just not up for taking on major renovation projects. (Anyways, they never work.) I want someone who has friends, not someone for whom I'm going to be the only contact with the outside world. I want someone who's interested in many varied things & maybe reads a lot. Also, he should have a work ethic, because I do. And I don't want to cope with a lot of political arguments all the time, so there's that to be considered, too.

We are seeking the same man!! Every problem listed above is why I am a soon to be divorced woman! How liberating. I've had my renovation project and you're right...they don't work out.

I never really had much of a type other than tall and older; I never seemed to get along well with guys my own age. I just feel like once you get to know someone it makes them either more or less attractive depending on how they act so I had never tried to limit my choices.

My husband loves my dark curly hair by the way so there are plenty out there who like that it's not the most common trait. Every once in a while he'll just tug on a ringlet and laugh.

I was also smaller when we met but by no means "thin" - maybe 185-195 lbs if I had to guess. He definitely prefers curves over rail thin.

Of course he likes the "boy toys" - boobs, butt, etc. but what he compliments most are things like my eyes, my non-catty attitude, and my wit. We can verbally spar and toss cheesy puns back and forth and it makes him smile.

My boyfriend claims to love "sluts" but I know better - all his exes have been non-slutty slightly intellectual types of varying builds - all 5'4, interestingly enough. His dream woman is Olivia Wilde and he prefers very small/slight curves over T&A, but like we have been posting about, very very very few people will write off someone who doesn't fit their paint chip specifications.

My dream man is Ben Klock (German minimal techno producer) but my boyfriend looks like Kurt Cobain. It has never occurred to me to compare them directly since they are different people.

I suppose the point of this all is again that you have nothing to worry about Eliana! Aim high and project yourself well, confidence attracts confidence. :)

http://www.nubreed.cz/1.redakce/obra.../ben_klock.jpg

(Ben Klock.)