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Originally Posted by BarristerGirl
I think its natural for people to communicate via comparison... to make themselves relateable, to offer advice, etc. As you can see, almost everyone has responded with a similar story/anecdote, but i think most of us can tell that no one here is trying to maliciously one up you.
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This! almost everyone who responded did the same thing to help you realize you are not alone-it happens to them too, ect. i am guilty of this. in no way though am i ever trying to one up anybody. it's more like, 'yes, i completely understand that feeling, isn't it horrible/exciting/ect?'
with that said i think everyone of us has had someone who truly does want and try to one up and is not doing it UNintentionally. and that's just dumb.