Hi everyone. I have been struggling with my weight and about 5 months ago found an amazing guy who I fell head over heals in love with. He makes me feel beautiful even though I am fat and has made me want to become a better person. We have recently started talking about marriage and having kids which made me really want to get healthy.
About a month ago, he was working in North Dakota on the oil rigs and got into some trouble. He was out drinking with some guys from work that he didn't know very well and got into a vehicle with a few guys. Well, to make a long story short, he passed out in the vehicle and the other guys left him there. My boyfriend thought that the guys he was with were the owners of the vehicle, but they weren't. The vehicle was stolen. He got arrested for unlawful use of a motor vehicle and possession of stolen property. He is still being held in jail and facing somewhere around 5 years in prison because his one witness took off for fear of being charged also.
I guess I'm just looking for people who may have dealt with, or are dealing with the same sort of thing. I try focusing my sadness elsewhere but I continually turn to eating.