Wow I happened by this by chance lol
I do know just what you're taling about with the year "Try it before you buy it." marrage.
since I made this post we've put wedding plans on hold. Though now Their starting back up again now that we moved into our first home. We still want a handfasting of sorts, but are still very open for ideas.
Of course their won't be any serious talk until I drop a little more weight ^.^
