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Originally Posted by kiramira (Post 2771521)

If you marry for the wrong reasons, or with the hope that things will get better, the marriage isn't on a stable foundation. And after marriage, things generally get WORSE rather than better

IMHO, love, trust & communication are the foundation of a happy marriage. Unfortunately, people don't always marry for those reasons and they don't think about the consequences for themself or for the person they marry. When it begins on the wrong foot, you are 100% correct....things typically get WORSE.
My Mom gave me some very valuable advice "Marriage is like building a house...you need a strong foundation (Love)....without it, the house will eventually crumble."
In this situation, my guess would be if he loved her, he'd probably consent to counseling to possibly strengthen the marriage....but...seriously, I don't see him going that route. He feels he "made his bed & now he has to lie in it"...he's clearly unhappy (as I'm sure she is as well)...and I'm sure as time goes by & the situation remains the same or gets worse...he will seek "happiness" outside the "marriage".
Hopefully wisdom will come with age & he'll do the right thing for himself as well as for her.