Men vs. Stretch Marks
So, I have quite a few stretch marks on my stomach... No man has ever said anything negitive about them, and believe me, if one ever had the courage to, I'd tell him where to go and how to get there. Has anyone ever received negative feedback from men they were with about stretch marks? I'm not going to lie, they make me a tad bit uncomfortable. I think most men don't care about them, but I'm sure theres a few out there who do.
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After my ex and I would finish "doing the deed" he would tell me how gross my stomach looked because it was saggy/had stretch marks. He is most definately an EX for a reason.
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WOW - Can you say RUDE?? :mad:
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I'm actually REALLY thankful for my guy b/c he's always made me feel beautiful, stretch marks and all. Of course, aesthetically speaking, who would want stretch marks? But if I ever feel self-conscious about them he'll actually kiss all those areas and make me feel silly for feeling bad about them, especially around him! :^: |
My husband is wonderful about my stretch marks and all, he knows that I'm insecure about them and he makes me feel beautiful no matter what. He knows my ex and knows everything that I went through with him and he would NEVER treat me that way, ever.
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But really ... ultimately? Who cares! If a man can't accept me for who I am (and that includes my stretch marks and the loose skin I have as I"m losing weight and so forth) then he's not the man for me. . |
And ladies, trust me -- the older you get, and the older the men you date/hook up with/love/marry get, the less stuff like that matters -- to either one of you.
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He also just had major abdominal surgery - and so has a huge scar down the length of his tummy. It matters about as much to me as my stretch marks and scars do to him. :) . |
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