Last year a friend of mine at work had a son who just walked away from his house during a divorce. His wallet, phone and keys were all left behind and the door was left unlocked(not typical). May have just gone for a mind clearing walk or maybe he just walked away, but he hasn't been heard from since.
Big Daddy still has the boy's picture and his own phone # on the truck he drives everywhere. I did for about a month.
Big D would atleast want to know his son is dead(he's told me so) rather than this constant gnawing pain that he has been willing to tell me and a couple of others who still care about. The skeleton of a boy who has been missing for ten years was just found here about a week ago. Now, his father is at peace.
I think that may be what Sally Feast is looking for.