I also would look into finding the right medications. My oldest stepson has ADHD, and we tried several different medications that are normally prescribed for ADHD. NOTHING worked, they all seemed to make him worse or did nothing at. Finally the doctor prescribed Guanfacine and he has done wonderfully on it! Guanfacine is not a typical ADHD medication, it was originally a blood pressure medication. Everybodys' body is different, sometimes you need to think outside the box!