Alright now I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and I feel like I've hit a wall. We spend tons of time together and I'm very satisfied that we love each other and there's lots of snuggling and all that good stuff. However, I feel SO bored lately that I can't take it anymore. He is a very even-keeled person who is rarely excited or really happy about anything...kinda the sarcastic type. That's not to say he's not happy, he just doesn't outwardly express a lot of positiveness. Recently an old male friend came back into my life who is the total opposite of my boyfriend...outgoing, fun, adventurous. I did previously have a small thing with this guy but it was very brief and we remained friends afterwards. I hadn't seen him for 5 years and we recently hung out again (with my boyfriend as well). And I just had a flood of feelings for him so strong that I don't know what to do. I've never had any sort of feelings for another man since I've been with my boyfriend and this is all new to me. I know after a few years the magic can subside and boredom in a relationship is normal, but I don't know how to get my mind off of this other guy. He's all I think about. I do love my boyfriend very much and I can't see breaking up with him, but I feel horrible for wanting this other man as much as I do. And the problem is, if he knew I felt this way, he'd want me too. We have that kind of history. Any suggestions?