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IwannaLoseIt 01-23-2007 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by simone1ca (Post 1544065)
The Pope himself can say so, but in a professional environment I would disagree, it just sounds wrong. We don't use other languages to say goodbye or hello, why use Ciao? I'm in Canada, and we're a bilingual country, but I've yet to hear anyone answer the phone with "Bonjour" or end a conversation with "Au revoir". That would make more sense to me.

LOL! Alright,I have to agree that in a professional environment it does sound inappropriate.

mandalinn82 01-23-2007 06:02 PM

I hate when people use the word "they" without explaining who they might be.

Like "They did a study which shows..." or "they say that..." (the second one is OK if you're referring to, say, a well known truism, like "they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder", but not if what the person is saying isn't really well known like that). Especially the "they" in the context of scientific research, as if all scientists are simply a collective body of "study do-ers", who can be referred to in the collective.

mandalinn82 01-23-2007 06:04 PM

I have a friend who ends every conversation with "cheers". I guess it is something of a signature for her, but its really awkward...do you say "cheers" back? Do you just nod? Do you respond to "cheers" with goodbye or whatever your typical signoff is?

The reason that conventional greetings were invented is so everyone had an idea of how to respond to everyone else. Not adhering makes it really difficult for people to respond, and makes the whole thing awkward.

techwife 01-23-2007 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by mandalinn82 (Post 1544084)
I hate when people use the word "they" without explaining who they might be.

Like "They did a study which shows..." or "they say that..." (the second one is OK if you're referring to, say, a well known truism, like "they say that absence makes the heart grow fonder", but not if what the person is saying isn't really well known like that). Especially the "they" in the context of scientific research, as if all scientists are simply a collective body of "study do-ers", who can be referred to in the collective.

:lol3: I remember an old boyfriend of mine that had a big argument with his mom about THEY. She was telling him what "THEY" say about smoking and he says, "Who are THEY, anyway? You don't even know who THEY are! So, you'll take the word of THEY over the word of your own son?" It was funny...he was just giving her a hard time, really. They were cute that way.

Another pet peeve is guys who call everyone 'Bra' instead of 'Bro'...instead of 'Brother'...instead of, say, 'Dude'...instead of 'Buddy'...instead of the person's real name. You get my drift...

Also...and this is said here a LOT...when someone is giving a point of view and then instead of saying, "On the other hand," or something, they say, "That being said," Drives me nuts and makes me think of Paula Abdul.

JackieB 01-23-2007 06:23 PM

I HATE when people say "I seen" instead of "I saw".

And this is odd but there are a few words I just don't like the sound of....Scrumptious, Plethora,Panties.

Weird, I know but I have a whole list! LOL

JackieB 01-23-2007 06:26 PM

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I know this one is often a typo, I've noticed that I myself have done it, more then once - to and too. To meaning, going some place, getting something done - I went to the grocery store to buy some grapes. and too, meaning a lot- I ate too many grapes.

your and you're is another one


I'm sure I do it sometimes, but the nerd in me goes nuts when I see it.:dizzy:

What about when people say they're getting their "Hairs cut"?

jtammy 01-23-2007 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by almostheaven (Post 1543743)
And it should have been something a co-worker did before she sent out a 2,000+ mailing that said "West Virginia Society of Certified Pubic Accountants". And only one of the 2,000+ members called about it. ROFL!


Oh NO!! :lol3:

You all have already mentioned several of my pet peeves. Another one is a pronunciation error that people make that really bothers me. I work for a library system and so many people pronounce it "li-berry", including some staff. That drives me crazy!

EZMONEY 01-23-2007 08:59 PM

The wife here - who also happens to be a 6th grade language arts teacher-

My pet peeve is having 6th graders who still can't begin a sentence with a capital letter or end it with a period! :dizzy: :dizzy:

Gary drives me nuts with his double-negatives. It's like nails on a chalkboard for me. :sp: :sp:

What else??!!! - people who don't know the difference between their, there, and they're, OR know, no, and now, OR people who use cuz or cause for the word because

A new thing is not pronouncing the letter "T". You would not believe the way my students (and nephew) say the word "Kitten" or "written". They completely drop the "T" sound - "ki -en" or "wri-en". People have become lazy speakers and writers.

I could go on forever, but I better get off my soap box and cook dinner. I think I have seen just about everything over the past 22 years in the classroom. :eek: :eek: :eek:

EZMONEY 01-23-2007 09:48 PM

Gary here ~ I got no idea what she is talking about ;) :sssh: don't tell her but she says "sammich" and it drives me :crazy:

BerkshireGrl 01-23-2007 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by EZMONEY (Post 1544293)
The wife here...
A new thing is not pronouncing the letter "T". You would not believe the way my students (and nephew) say the word "Kitten" or "written". They completely drop the "T" sound - "ki -en" or "wri-en".

Sadly, this is not so new ;)

My mom drilled it into me as a child growing up in the 70s in western Massachusetts to ALWAYS pronounce the T in words like "mountain" - otherwise, she told me I'd sound like some "ignorant hick" ;) Yeah, she definitely has strong opinions on speaking. But the reason I got the mom smackdown was because I was learning it from my classmates in grade school...

Thank God she was never a teacher, the classroom would be full of bald kids with muscle tics :lol:

So, in light of that lesson burned into my brain, I always inwardly twitch when my (ahem) team leader at work drops her T's... or says things like "I didn't get no notice of that" or "They don't got none." :bomb:

EZMONEY 01-23-2007 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by BerkshireGrl (Post 1544340)
....... "They don't got none." :bomb:

Gary here ~ everytime I say this, Angie threatens to leave me! she read this over my shoulder and just walked out of the room screaming!!

GreatBigMonsterMomma 01-23-2007 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Goodbye Chubby (Post 1543880)
Was anyone else's school curriculum like this? My English classes deliberately focused more on writing style than grammar and spelling; this preference was clearly stated in middle school, but the trend was apparent in my elementary and high schools as well (with the exception of perhaps 2 teachers).

That was certainly not the case in my school. My teachers all took points off for misspellings in final drafts. My English teachers, I should say; my history and Russian teachers were a bit more lax. ;) (Yes, I wrote reports in Russian class, in English; we had to write one book report a semester.)

There is quite a discussion going on at another message board I belong to over the use of breastfeeding vs nursing. Apparently several women dislike the term breastfeeding because they feel it doesn't accurately describe the whole nursing relationship. The British & Australian mamas, meanwhile, dislike the term "nursing" because in their countries it just means cuddling. (For myself, I prefer breastfeeding because it's more specific.) I can understand disliking the term "feed" as in "How many feeds has the baby had today?", because we typically use feed for animals and eat for people, but I don't comprehend the dislike of the term breastfeed.

The other one that gets me, and I see it a lot on one particular board, is the term "discrete" instead of "discreet." I don't believe it to be a typo as much as a misspelling of discreet. It makes a person look distinctly uneducated, as if they don't know that discrete is a, well, discrete word.

The other thing which annoys me, and I've been seeing it a lot in the media lately, is the use of plural verbs for collective nouns. This is correct usage in Britain, but not in America. At best, it is pretentious. It sounds odd to say "all politics is local", but that is the correct terminology.

da fat n da furious 01-23-2007 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by mandalinn82 (Post 1544086)
I have a friend who ends every conversation with "cheers". I guess it is something of a signature for her, but its really awkward...do you say "cheers" back? Do you just nod? Do you respond to "cheers" with goodbye or whatever your typical signoff is?

The reason that conventional greetings were invented is so everyone had an idea of how to respond to everyone else. Not adhering makes it really difficult for people to respond, and makes the whole thing awkward.


I worked for a company that expected us to say Cheers after each phone call. On an average of 80 calls per day I admit that saying cheers became a habit that I used outside of work.

almostheaven 01-23-2007 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jtammy (Post 1544123)
Oh NO!! :lol3:

You all have already mentioned several of my pet peeves. Another one is a pronunciation error that people make that really bothers me. I work for a library system and so many people pronounce it "li-berry", including some staff. That drives me crazy!

See! now I'm wondering if anyone else here noticed the error. LOL

Li-berry? Is that anything like nuke-ya-ler? :D

lizziness 01-23-2007 10:54 PM

It was the case in my school... I didn't even learn what adjectives, verbs, and nouns were until I started studying German!

My peeves are the standard they're, there, their and to, too, two... my husband says "gots" which drives me nuts and "gimmie-it" annoys me too.

Spelling errors really get on my nerves, and to tell you all the truth, if someone posts something on here and can't get the subject right I won't even look at it. lose weight. Arg!

The biggest offender is my MIL who just refuses to properly conjugate!!! "I going to store" "I go to store" sometimes all I'll get from her is "I store" It makes me want to cry. I have had to send her emails back to her asking her to retype it into something that I can understand. So frustrating.

lizziness 01-23-2007 10:55 PM

Oh! and there is this woman I work with who notes people's accounts "Speaked with member" she speaked with them! Arg!

almostheaven 01-23-2007 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lizziness (Post 1544403)
Oh! and there is this woman I work with who notes people's accounts "Speaked with member" she speaked with them! Arg!

Did you spoke with her about this? :D

lizziness 01-23-2007 11:15 PM

I gots to do it, and um stuff...


Actually, as a joke sometimes we use "umstuff" like what do you want for dinner? "umstuff" what are you doing? "umstuff" hehehehe.

sweet_talker 01-23-2007 11:33 PM

When people say that they've "dethawed" something? You mean freezing it again? There's no "de" in there anywhere.

It really gets to me when I hear the term "boughten". You haven't just gone out and "boughten" something, you just BOUGHT it.

People spelling "weird" as "wierd". Capitalizing "Internet" is sooo lame, too. I know that it's correct (when referencing things at a University level) but it feels soooo silly.

1TiredGradStudent 01-23-2007 11:53 PM

"Wallah" (and other related misspellings) instead of voila.

lizziness 01-23-2007 11:59 PM

hehe. we used to get people calling our hardware store asking for something to unthaw pipes.. dad would always tell them to leave them alone and they'd do it on their own. :)

Also very common where I grew up "ammons" in place of almonds.

Dan2112 01-24-2007 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by BlueToBlue (Post 1543993)
Actually, "towards" is a word and can be used interchangeably with "toward." See http://www.wsu.edu/~brians/errors/toward.html.

I guess that might be so in common speech, but in formal writing and journalism, the word is a definite no-no according to the AP Stylebook, which every journalist should adhere to, but sadly, many don't...

I found a link too... Basically saying that towards may not be incorrect, but "toward" is more formal but also interchangible..

http://www.agriculture.purdue.edu/ag..._01.html#three

I'll just stick to what the AP guide says.. :lol:

Good catch!

OH.. One I forgot earlier.. When people pronounce often like "off-ten" instead of "offen".. Like nails on a chalkboard... Especially my friends in the media and PR..

2frustrated 01-24-2007 06:17 AM

Excessive use of " " rabbit ears.

eg. We have recently opened a branch "in the north"...

And, on a Karate Website that I will now stop looking at, "Do you feel you should try to LOSE WEIGHT and get a little fitter after the onslaught of Christmas eating. If you don't fancy facing the "heavy weights" or the "fast aerobic classes" at your local gym, you "will" lose weight and get a lot fitter in one of our "step-by-step beginners exercise classes" or "get back to karate classes" which are small and taken at a slow pace, starting in January."

I "will" lose weight "will" I? :mad:

rockinrobin 01-24-2007 06:22 AM

Or how about when people add an R to the ends of a word, as in PIZZER (pizza)?

BerkshireGrl 01-24-2007 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by EZMONEY (Post 1544353)
Gary here ~ everytime I say this, Angie threatens to leave me! she read this over my shoulder and just walked out of the room screaming!!

:rofl: See, you're not alone! There is a whole tribe of people you come from! ;) (she really is a bright, sweet woman, who is a great manager, but lord, the grammar!)

aphil 01-24-2007 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by HadEnough (Post 1543486)
How about AKS, not ASK....drives me insane.

This is also a HUGE one for me...I mean, how hard of a word is this to pronounce? An AXE is something you chop down a tree with-geez.


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Originally Posted by kaplods (Post 1543502)
I need to "lose" fat, not "loose" it (it's loose enough, all hangy and flabby, besides wouldn't it then be "loosen" it if you just wanted it looser but not gone). I've been seeing this even in weight loss articles lately, so I'm beginning to wonder if someone has changed the meaning of the word "loose" without my noticing.

You don't know how often, as a moderator here, I want to edit this out of gads of posts here. :lol:


Okay-here is another one. I HATE it when people put letters in words that don't belong there, like saying WARSH instead of WASH. "We have to go WARSH the clothes". :mad: AAAHHH!

Another one, a REALLY big one, and this is probably only because I live in Indiana, is when people pronounce the word MUSKMELON (a cousin of the cantalaupe, for those who are unfamiliar with the word) MUSHmelon instead. It is really common around here with older people. It drives me INSANE.

EZMONEY 01-24-2007 08:18 AM

One of my buddies always want to put on his turn "single" and show me "pitchers" of his family.

4myloves 01-24-2007 09:31 AM

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When people say that they've "dethawed" something? You mean freezing it again? There's no "de" in there anywhere.
My DH says "unthaw" rather than thaw, which drives me crazy!

Also, when he speaks to me he has an irritating habit of saying "looka here" at the beginning of each sentence. My response to this is, "I don't have to LOOK at you to HEAR what you are saying to me!"

4myloves 01-24-2007 09:33 AM

Oh! I just thought of another one!

My SIL says "I done done it."

finn 01-24-2007 09:47 AM

Oh this one grates me...In Ireland, 17th of March is St Patricks day (or it can be called Paddy's day). It is not St Patty's day.

Spideranne 01-24-2007 10:30 AM

Here is one...might could...used together as in, "I might could go to the store." I've moved around a lot and tend to pick up the phrases of the area. I've pretty much accepted the use of "fixing to" in everyday language around here, but might could still bugs me.

Spinymouse 01-24-2007 12:07 PM

I am relieved to find that I am not alone in having many word peeves! Here is another that may sound picky to some, but I have worked in analytical chemistry almost all my adult life, so it really irks me to hear people get their elements mixed up. It's aluminum foil, not tin foil!! I sent a copy of the periodic table of the elements to the Food Network because I heard Paula Deen say "tin foil."

marbleflys 01-24-2007 12:34 PM

"Y'all, I offer my most sincere apologies on behalf of the Food Netowrk to Ms. Spinymouse for my error in using the term Tin in place of aluminum" .....

Goodbye Chubby 01-24-2007 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by jtammy (Post 1544123)
Oh NO!! :lol3:

You all have already mentioned several of my pet peeves. Another one is a pronunciation error that people make that really bothers me. I work for a library system and so many people pronounce it "li-berry", including some staff. That drives me crazy!

This reminded me of a huge word peeve I have. I love the restaurant, Chipotle, and can't stand it when people pronounce the word: chipolte. ahhh!

I used to live with someone who instead of the word "discombobulated," would say "miscombobulated." That drove me insane.

iconoclast 01-24-2007 01:18 PM

I always have a marker in my purse to fix bad spelling and grammar. When I was still in school and working as a waitress, people would always laugh at how I marked up management's posted memos. I think something just goes off in my brain when I see awful writing and I feel the need to crusade against it. The other day, my gym had a sign that said "ITS TIME FOR A PERSONAL TRAINER" and I put in the apostrophe. I'm a nut. But come on, it's a national chain of gyms, and it should bloody well check its signage before sending it all out to be displayed everywhere.

Another thing that drives me insane is when adults baby-talk. A lot of women do this. There is one woman I work with who always asks me if I want to go get some "din-dins". I mean, for God's sake.

jtammy 01-24-2007 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by almostheaven (Post 1544401)
See! now I'm wondering if anyone else here noticed the error. LOL

Li-berry? Is that anything like nuke-ya-ler? :D


We have some Pubic Liberries that have ALMOST made that mistake. I've always had a fear of typing that and not realizing it until too late.

My grandmother always used to say tin foil, and occasionally I'll say it also. I have to catch myself ahead of time. She also used to pronouce lasagna as "cassandra". Lasagna wasn't something she had until late in life, and it always makes me smile to think of her and lasagna.

Suzanne 3FC 01-24-2007 01:27 PM

THINGY!

:tantrum: :censored: :bomb: :tape:

It annoys me :lol:

simone1ca 01-24-2007 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Suzanne 3FC (Post 1545175)
THINGY!

:tantrum: :censored: :bomb: :tape:

It annoys me :lol:


:rofl: I use that a lot! Even in emails! I'll be sure not to use that thingy here. LOL!

Another one I thought of, this is more a pronounciation error: ambalance instead of ambulance.

srmb60 01-24-2007 01:54 PM

I've had patients who relate a history of ammonia.
One told me that, after he and his wife had had enough children, he'd had a bisectomy.

jillybean720 01-24-2007 05:55 PM

I was a technical editor/writer for about two years (and still do some proposal writing). I've always been a bit of a spelling/grammar/punctuation geek, and many, many, many of the peeves already mentioned here are peeves of mine as well. Here are a few to add to the list:
  • Mixing up "personal" and "personnel." I promise, they mean two very different things and cannot be used interchangeably (as I have seen done by some proposal writers with whom I've worked).
  • On here, I'm not sure why people find "sandwich" so difficult to spell. It's quite phonetic. Really, there are no tricky silent h's or t's (and, yes, "sammich" bothers me as well).
  • On the topic of "baby talk," as mentioned by previous posters, it seems to be common for our English friends to refer to breakfast as "brekkie." Ugh...I shudder every time. It may be completely normal across the pond, but it just truly irks me.
  • Another one on here: "weight" is a noun, and "weigh" is a verb. You do not "weight" yourself every day, nor do you "weight" 200 pounds. Oh, and you NEVER "weighted" yourself yesterday :dizzy:
  • I had a roommate in college who would always say, "I'ma go to the store." I'ma--I'm not sure how else to spell it. Is it really so difficult to say, "I'm going to the store?"
  • My father has always used the term "yous" for the plural of "you." No, Dad, "you" is already interchangeably singular and plural in the English language.


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