I work from home full time. We also have only one car which my DH(husband) uses to go to work. I am here in this apartment almost 24/7. I get out about 8 hours on the weekends. That is divided among getting groceries, going to church and eating out once a week. As you can see, I have still managed to lose weight. I do not believe it has been because I have extraordinary willpower.
However, I have benefited from having specific "tools" in place in my life:
1)I try to post and read on this website at least once a week. More if I can.
2) I make sure that I have all of the foods and only those foods that I need to follow my food plan. My food plan is such that I prepare the same foods for my husband as I eat. He just eats more of certain foods than I do.
3) I plan exercise or physical activity around my job and my life but it is a part of my life.
4) I ask for emotional support from my husband, who gives it gladly. I share my life on here in a direct, open and honest way. That is who I am. Fat or thin. That is probably who I will always be.
5) I pray to God for divine help. When I lose, I thank everyone who was a part of that weight lose including the people here, God, my husband and yes sometimes the stranger I have just met.
You can do this. Being a stay at home mom has challenges but I remember having candy dishes on every desk at work with "Help yourself" Post its stuck to the dish, holiday pot lucks, office birthday parties or just plain Donut Day, etc. Everyone has some kind of challenge they have to deal with. Just remember that.
Good luck and
Jean3