GARY ~ yes, you have very valid points there; I would like to see a nice mix of foods -- healthier fare for those who need and/or want it; and the popular dishes for those who want them. Most dishes can be made a bit healthier without people even noticing it, like using leaner meats and a bit less sugar and so forth.
I agree that some people still get caught up on the "sin" issue; when we are now covered by 'GRACE'. Does calling a weight issue the "sin of gluttony" make the fat go away any faster? NO! Does harping on that help me or anyone else lose weight? NO! Does focusing on the negative make a positive difference? NO!
If you keep doing the same thing, you will get the same results -- people have been harping on the "sin labeling" issue since time began; and it hasn't changed a thing. The law was given to make us aware that we are sinners; BUT IT ISN'T A CURE FOR THE SIN! Now "SIN" is just anything that falls short of the glory of GOD or His perfect goodness.
We know that weightloss issues are much more complicated than just identifying it as a "sin". There are just way too many contributing factors; one of which you referred to and that is the kinds of food we produce today for our people to eat. Some of it is healthy, and some is not.
The truth is that the healthy food doesn't taste as yummy as the "other" foods like you mentioned. Let's be honest -- people want food that tastes good. If we could make veggies taste like pizza or lasagna, maybe more people would eat them.
The grocery stores are now lined with junk aisles; when in the past that kind of food was reserved for the variety stores. Another issue is serving sizes as well -- people don't know what a serving is becuz they are served amounts that are huge or they self-serve. Many people have never been taught what a proper serving of food is, so it is no wonder they overeat.
I have seen children walking around with a 1/2 lb bag of chippies or nachos for a snack (more than they need for the whole days' calories). Why do parents and/or grandparents do this -- becuz it's cheap and quick and makes the kiddies happy.
Really, it has become a societal issue now. We as a society have to take responsibility for the health problems we have created. Our young people are being raised on food that will make them sick when they are older. We have gone crazy over ciggies, but still allow a much bigger threat to grow silently in the background.
The churches can play an important role by being part of the solution, not by condemning people. We can help them by loving them, teaching them, supporting them, and praying for them -- which is the churches' job anyways. We can be a guiding light and example instead of being part of the problem.
GARY's idea of starting a "support group" in the church is a very good one. We don't really need another bible study although the basics can help clear up some misconceptions as it has done in this thread (I hope).
What we need is prayer to ask for a healing of all the hurts and issues that are contributing to our overeating. I know for myself that this is/was "KEY" for me to lose weight and keep it off for 5 years now. I know that I am not at my goal yet, but I am still losing weight.
I have been praying and praising and singing and reciting scriptures to deal with those emotional issues that come up in my life that tempt me to eat when I am not hungry and don't need any more food. And, I need to pay attention to make sure that I am eating enuff too; sounds like a contradiction but it is not: if I don't eat enuff my body panics and sends signals to eat, eat, eat! For me, eating too much is not good, and eating too little isn't either -- I need balance (moderation is a good word).
Here are my personal issues -- 1) emotional upset from the past 2) hurt feelings 3) being embarrassed or made fun of 4) being criticized by others 5) feeling unloved & unappreciated & perceptions of same 6) feeling judged 7) boredom
I have been very transparent here -- but I think if we are honest, these are truly the things that we need addressed on top of the ones I mentioned earlier, which are related to "societal conditioning".
So what is the solution? We need healing -- so we need prayer first; then we need loving, being accepted, good teaching, help (like this site), and support by loving, caring people who have that special gift. To heal the boredom issue, I am now crocheting charity blankets; it keeps my hands busy; and I am giving to and serving others as I am healing.
Sorry, I'm starting to ramble/rant a bit... but I just wanted to share some of my heartfelt thoughts; hope you don't mind!
