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Originally Posted by LyraRenee
So. I’m a little fatty and decided it’s about time I do something about it
I’m 19 years old, 5’ 6” and 233.8 pounds (105.8kg) as of yesterday.
I’m kind of an impatient person, and I know crash diets don’t work if you don’t initiate a lifelong good diet habit afterward. Being impatient that I am, I decided to use this diet to kickstart my transition into weight loss/healthy eating. Also, Has anyone else tried this diet? Did it work for you?
Yes I tried it (and many diets like it) and no they never worked in the long run.
Everyone is impatient when it comes to weight loss. Almost no one says, "I'm perfectly content with turtle-slow weight loss. I really don't care how slow the weight comes off, I have all the time in the world.
Instead we all believe we "need" rapid weight loss, and we tell ourselves we just need a kick start to get motivated, and then we'll transition to a sensible plan - but the sensible plan never materializes.
Instead, it's the impatience that KILLS virtually all weight loss attempts. The failure rate isn't in the high 90th percentile because overweight people are patient. People don't quit diets and regain because they're failing - but because they feel like they're failing - they're not happy with the rate of weight loss.
Virtually no one ever gets to the "sensible lifestyle" phase, because even ON the crash diets, the weight loss slows. And if the weight loss isn't fast enough on the "kick start, crash" part of the diet, it's going to be even slower, and less tolerable on sensible lifestyle portion.
And worse, it's very possible that the "crash" or "kickstart" phase actually lowers metabolism (if only because you often burn muscle along with the fat, and the less muscle you have, the fewer calories you burn), making it harder and harder to lose on sensible AND crash plans.
In a very real way, I crash dieted my way to 400 lbs. I didn't eat more and more and more over the years to get that big. Instead, I crash dietied, and the returned to my old eating habits, but EXCEEDED my "old" highest weight, because my metabolism dropped. I ended up maintaining 400 lbs of fat, on a calorie level that in my late teens and twenties won me rather rapid weight loss (which I considered slow at the time, because we all think weight loss is slow).
All my life, I dieted and failed because of impatience. You can learn patience now, or you can learn it the hard way, later.
I'd hate to see you follow the path so many of us have, crash dieting our way to fatter and fatter bodies, because we were impatient and "needed" that kickstart, lying to ourselves that we would be ok with slower weight loss at some fictional point in the future that never comes, because even on the "crash" dieting, the weight loss never feels fast enough to be satisfying.
Rather than moving on to "sensible" we give up entirely, because if the crash dieting isn't succeeding well enough for us to feel successful, how the heck is "sensible" going to get us there?
Don't get on the crash diet rollercoaster - it's a death trap. If you're on it - get off, and never look back. Each small taste of "rapid weight loss" is going to give you an elusive "high" you'll constantly compare every other w eight loss to, and try to recapture (and never quite succeed).
And worst of all, every crash diet that fails, takes you further and further from success, because it takes more and more work to yield smaller and smaller results.
Of course, everyone always says "just this once," and then "just one more time, and that'll be the end," but it never is.