Baltimora is soooo right, you'll be amazingly beautiful, watherver your weight. I'll agree, some dresses do wonders ! Be open to try different style, also. I always had a belly, even when I was dangerously slim, so I was reaaly not looking for a dress that was fitted around the belly, but you know what, the one that really was the more flattering was, with a full skirt.

I understand where you're coming from, I have sooo many body image issues, even at my lowest weigh, I tought I was huge. I look at my wedding pictures now and I think my face is a little too thin for my features. Boy, I thought I was HUGE at that time.

Try to enjoy the moment (I know it's hard). Have a glass of wine with a loving and supportive friend and then GO, go look at dresses.

thanks everyone :)