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Originally Posted by odonnela
Me too. My therapist swears I couldn't have been born this way but
it really feels like it. I had a happy childhood, I have a happy marriage, great
family, great friends....so why do I do this? Thats the $10,000 question.
Hi,
I know I was born this way. No doubt that it is genetic in my family. I was breastfed until I vomited (consistently) and then I grew into eating until I threw up until I was around 6. I had no ability to stop. It took me YEARS to get it under control. The first time I was ever able to stay on a diet was around 17 years old.
My psychiatrist also doubts the "born this way" argument.
I don't know that it actually matters if there is a genetic reason for it though, as it all has the same outcome. There's no drug that will magically snap you out of compulsive eating, its just work, work, work.
I have a lot of issues with Wellbutrin, but the first time I took it (around 17 years old, 17 years ago) was the first time I was able to stay on a diet for an extended period of time. It won't magically give willpower, but it will back you up, its kind of amazing that way. I can't take it now.
Anyhoo, I think if it comforts you to think of it this way, than go ahead, but we as a society are focussing more on the "whys" of our issues than the solutions. Sometimes dwelling on the "whys" actually prevents you from progressing to a solution. I've been in therapy most of my life and it is only in the last 7 years or so that this has become clear. The action is what solves the problem, and that progress will help you to analyze the source of your issues in a rational, constructive manner.