Nervous about Therapy
Well, I am posting because I have set up an appointment with a counselor where I go to college. It's free, and the person I am seeing is qualified as a therapist, but am really nervous because I haven't been in counseling since I was around 18. I am almost 22 now, and my experience of adult mental health care is NOT a good one. I have had depression and other issues since my middle school years and had a pretty good therapy experience during that time. However, in the years since I last went, my older sister has had treatment for her mental illness and it has left me with great distrust of the mental health system. Here is a little about what happened..
Admittedly her problems were severe, but I am avid that their treatment actually did more to hurt her then help her. All they were interested in was giving her so many drugs that her nurses were getting them mixed up, and my sister was so drugged that she didn't realize the side effects on her. She was having tremors, and was wayyyy 'out of it'. They took this as some sort of behavior issue, and would basically shrug off all our attempts to tell them something was wrong. It took her an attempted overdose on all her meds before they withdrew all of them cold turkey. She was in **** for about a weeks time, going through withdrawal that could have killed her because they didn't take her off gradually. It was a blessing in disguise however because after that, she was put on only a few meds and has been doing relatively well since that time. The meds were not the only problem..she was suicidal, bipolar, schizoaffective and borderline by their labeling, in other words she would self harm, had mood swings and was hearing things/voices. Their way of dealing with this was to sedate, tie down, isolate and medicate, with occasional one on one 'therapy'. These things took a great toll on her psyche, as if she wasn't feeling crazy already. Now one can debate the safety of a person, but, I think there is a point where their coercive treatment caused her illness to deepen, and it led to her being sent to a state mental hospital. In this place, it's basically like a persons rights have been taken away. There is no right to refuse medicine, and there is basically nobody on your side. She went through several things that she could file grievances on but didn't because she didn't think she would be taken seriously. These days she is doing much better, but is basically suffering PTSD because of everything that happened to her.
With that background in mind, it is actually a great deal because of her treatment that I myself have been going through so much..Depression, PTSD like issues, past things, combined with other stress has gotten me back to needing counseling. This is why I have set up an appointment, and it has taken a lot for me to get the nerve to do so. Now I am deathly afraid and nervous to 'say the wrong thing' because I don't want someone to basically hit the panic button and cart me away somewhere. I'm really just feeling the need for reassurance that I can do this and get help..what have your experiences been??
Last edited by Phoenix301; 10-20-2010 at 10:27 PM.
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