pulling it together.
 

I'm slowly trying to incorporate healthy habits back into my life after several years of being depressed. I'm off junk food, and walking regularly. The next thing I need to tackle is my hygiene. I finally got my make up and hair products unpacked (we moved a month ago), so starting this morning I'm going to commit to shower everyday, or even every other day, put on some makeup and try to look somewhat presentable. Need to wash my face at night, and brush my teeth twice a day. I feel ridiculous that these are chores that take so much effort I have to commit to them in writing, but it is what it is. I'll check back and let you know how I'm doing.

GOOD MORNING:D HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU:yes: GOOD JOB ON NO JUNK FOOD :congrat:THAT'S A PLUS I'M TRYING THAT AS WELL :^: I STARTED UP WALKING/JOGGING YESTERDAY MYSELF:running: DID 4.38 MILES:carrot: JOGGED 2 WALKED THE REST:dizzy: I'M HAPPY WITH THAT!!!! WE WILL SEE WHAT TODAY BRINGS.:?:KEEP US POSTED WITH YOU ON EVERYTHING:dust:

HAVE A GREAT DAY TO ALL:coach:

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Thin...I know exactly what you are facing. I am dealing with those same things, silly for some, but difficult for me. I hope that you can accomplish some of those things that you have mentioned, me too!

You can do it, thinpossible! :) It looks like your 17 days without junk food are already having a positive impact on how you are feeling, because you are setting goals and getting healthy. Don't worry about the goals seeming "silly"; even normally routine tasks like hygiene can seem monumental when you've been seriously depressed so it's a very, very good sign that you are taking these steps.

You are taking all the right steps in a positive direction! You're on your way!

So far I'm doing pretty well. Last night I did not want to bother to clean my face and teeth, but I made myself. It only takes about 4 minutes, and I feel so much better in the morning with a clean face. Habits are very difficult for me, but I'm trying to stick with it.

Congrats thin... So far I've made myself eat two meals today...the last one is going to be simple ...a smoothie...that's about all the energy I have today. I did go out into the yard and pull some weeds...if you only knew how major that was...:dizzy:

Tomorrow my goal is to do the front yard...

Didn't do very well yesterday, but this morning I jumped in the shower first thing.

Hey Thin...I did the shower thiing today and the front yard, although not by myself...I feel better! Happy to hear you made goal too!

Great JOb! I got the front hedges trimmed, so I guess we were both working outside yesterday. Didn't shower this morning, but I think every other day is ok. Cleaned my face and teeth and put some make up on. Now I'm off to take the dog for a walk.

Hi thinpossible,
i have similar goals, mostly with house work though.

have you every heard of fly lady? it's a book that sounds silly, but it really helped me by learning to set rediculously small goals that add up throughout the day. i don't follow the book by heart, but i do still incorporate some of the practices.
the book is called "Sink Reflections"
http://www.flylady.net/pages/flyshop_sink.asp

and she has a web site: http://www.flylady.net/


it's amazing how some of the simple steps in the book make such a big difference in how you feel.

kae, I am having the same issues with house work as well. My place always looks like a dump and i'm ashamed to have people over.

I've only been eating clean and exercising for about 2 weeks, and I'm having quite a tough time over it....I've been EXTREMELY aggrivated and grumpy, moody, and just sometimes I even throw hissey fits...ARGH! I get up and ride my bike to and from work then ride to the gym and work out and when I get home I just want to go to bed so i'm not awake and craving bad foods and always wondering if i'm exercising enough or if i made the right food choices. I'm still hoping that it will get easier, because i really don't want to spend the rest of my life being so angry i could choke someone....:(

Yes, I have heard of her. I signed up for a while, but I was overwhelmed with all the emails. I do keep up with the "zones" of the house and do those with her. Actually, my house is pretty clean most of the time, it's just other areas I can't seem to be consistent in. Maybe I'll check out the book and see if I can get some help where I need it, thanks!

I don't post often in this section; but wanted to say great job for sticking to a routine. I know how hard it is... for awhile I was getting there... and then some things in life just upset me and I'm back at square one. It is funny how something as small as washing your face, and even brushing your teeth take effort when you are depressed.

Ugh, today has not been good. I mean I feel ok, but thinking about going upstairs to clean my face and teeth just seems haaaard. Wow that sounds really whiny. So here is my plan for the day:

Pick up DD#1 from music camp ( I have to leave in about 10 minutes)
Come home, change out the laundry and take care of my face, teeth and hair.
Fold laundry
Unpack another box or two.

Then it'll be lunch time, and I'll play it by ear from there.

I'm right there with you, sister. It's the routine that gets to me. Anything I have to do that's repetitive seems repulsive to me. I know that for me, it's Adult ADD that is at issue, on top of depression.

As for the personal hygiene thing, oy! I'm definitely in the same club! I too feel much better when I've properly washed my face, etc. But there's so many other things to do in a day...I get up and hit the ground running with caring for everyone else's needs that it's now just after noon and I'm still not showered and dressed, etc. But the whole downstairs is dusted and vacuumed, all the dishes are done, the laundry is almost done, the boys are packed to spend the weekend with their father, we had lunch, and I just put a bunch of shoes away in the closet.

Its funny how the rest of the house can be clean, but everything slowly migrates to the garage or my bedroom. And they look like dumping grounds! I don't like to live like this, but I get to a certain point in the day and I'm too mentally tired to make myself do one more thing.

Georgia

Hey guys and nice to meet you...

Well I got off track and just slept the day away... Yesterday, however, I was feeling better and got the personal hygiene done, cleaned out my closet mostly but still have some to do, cooked some homemade soup but it took me 2 days to cook it (heavy sigh), and went to the grocery store with my daughter and made spaghetti so that she would have something to eat. The only problem is that at 13 if I don't make her plate, she won't fix it herself...she will eat sandwiches or noodles or something... It was a good day to say the least...I have those occasionally and I'm always surprised by them but thankful!!!:carrot:

My dd has chores so that helps to keep the house clean. I also made her clean out her room and bag things up so that goodwill can pick everything up on Friday.

Sounds like a great site but if there are lots of emails that would be too much of a challenge right now...

Hope everyone is feeling better than I was today... Hoping for a better tomorrow!

Faith

Ha, that's true of our house too. The whole house is clean except my room. Gonna clean it today.

I've slept the day away too. It sounds like you're making good progress though! Baby steps, right? :cp:

My kids have chores too. I have three, and they each do a load of laundry a week, and one is paired with my husband or me each night for cleaning up the kitchen after dinner.

Also, I give them their allowance for the month in one dollar bills, but they don't get to spend any of it until the end of the month because if they leave a mess and don't clean it up, they have to put a dollar in the house fund. My son who's the youngest is usually best about hanging on to his money, go figure! :shrug:

OK, off to brush my teeth, wash my face and walk the dog.


How are you guys at eating breakfast?

Hey Thin...well I forgot to mention my room is the worst in the house lol... I'm still working on finishing the spring cleaning...heavy sigh!

As far as breakfast...well I honestly wasn't eating and would not eat anything until around noon. Now I'm trying to get in at least 3 meals a day and a snack...today I managed that so I'm proud of myself. Although, I didn't count the calories so I'm uncertain as to how many I had... Right now I'm just trying to get the routine down, clean foods, and starting Monday will start charting everything in Fitday.

Tomorrow I would like to do so gardening so we will see...and finish the bedroom lol!

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Faith

Got the house cleaned before we left for the weekend. Ahhhh! Feels good to come home to a clean house. This morning I started tackling financial stuff with our accountant. Ugh, I hate that junk and it feels so good to have gotten it out of the way! :carrot:

Congrats on cleaning the house! I went to the zoo yesterday...boy I looked in the mirror (don't do that much) and looked like a hippo! I've got to buckle down and lose some weight because I look like humpty dumpty...heavy sigh!


TJ

Today is not good. I couldn't go to sleep last night, and I'm tired today. I have some stuff that I don't want to do, and I must get it done. Not a good combination with fatigue. Here's what I'm going to do: make a list of 6 things I need to get done today, and do them. Right now I'm going to go take a shower, even though I just want to sit here like a lump.

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I don't want to post a new reply because it will move this thread to the top of the forum, and I don't want to bore y'all with the silly problems I have trying to function normally :lol: So I think I'll just update in this same place b/c edits don't count' as a new post.

Anyway Its. Weds. 6-24 and I'm doing pretty well. Got a lot of stuff on my to do list done, and haven't sat around on my bootie. Got a shower this morning too :)