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Jasmine you are doing so great!! Way to go on that walking, that is simply incredible. I would venture to guess that the scale is only reflecting the nachos. I dont know about you, but for me it takes a good day or 2 for salt to show its ugly head on the scale. Couple good days of water and its gone again. Do you take measurements too?
Mande...that bath sounds incredible! I love lilac! I havent taken a bath in so long, my big butt doesnt fit in there comfortably enough to relax, half of me ends up sticking out and I get too cold! LOL! Something to look forward to when I'm smaller for sure!! Way to go on another loss!! You are just shrinking away on us arent you!!! Keep up the amazing work! Sugar baby...how did your party go? Did you avoid the temptations? I LOVE salad and breadsticks from Olive garden! YUM!! Luckily we dont have one here! Had a weird night with food last night. My family was craving Taco Bell, so I told myself "alright self, if you are gonna have an off night have something better than Taco Bell!" So I got myself some lo mein from the chinese place. And for whatever reason it just didnt taste that good to me. Normally I could eat the whole container, and dont get me wrong I still had about half of it but I mostly just picked out the veggies and chicken. Weird. Luckily dh finished it off last night so i dont have it tempting me this morning! I have a day chalk full of homework ahead of me! Have a fantastic Saturday challengers! ~melissa |
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1. The likely hood of me actually drowning in the tub... slim to none! 2. My tummy is great for resting my book on, and the book doesn't get wet! I do 2 things to deal with the cold issue. 1. I rotate. If my ta-tas and my tummy are cold, I roll over. And when my butt gets cold, I rotate back! 2. If I really really am stiff and need a bath baaad, I just put a towel in the tub, wet it in the hot water, and lay it over myself. When it cool off, I resoak it, and repeat. I just love my baths too much to say goodbye to them! Way to go on defeating T.B.! The veggies and chicken are way better than a fried burrito. I have to admit I love when the veggies and chicken are just drenched, but they are still way better than a fried burrito and all that processed cheese! |
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Jasmine...where in MT are you planning to move?
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Hi all. Im not doing too good with the weight loss. Ive been eating way too much. Im really bumbed out because my knees and legs have really been hurting since I began running on the treadmill. Im trying to take a couple days break from using the treadmill. I dont know if its my running shoes or what but I cant afford new ones right now.
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Today was MUCH more fabulous than yesterday. I did not have a SINGLE slip-up! This is a very big victory for me. It seemed like everytime I opened my pantry, all this junk food would be staring me right in the face, it felt almost taunting. Well, I fixed that! I went through all the cupboards and the pantry, and removed all the foods that will only hurt me and my goal. I put them all in a cupboard above the fridge (where I can't reach them without a step ladder), and just having them out of sight was a major help.
As promised, I will post my grocery list, but not now. I'm tired hehe. I did really well, while DF still dropped the bad stuff in the cart. But with that "crap" out of my sight, I should be okay! I'll check back, I can't seem to stay off this forum! Hope you all had as good a day as I did! ~Mande |
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Today has been craaazy! But, I had a super duper time at scrap city! :D Grabbed me a FF coffee/mocha on the way over and set up my stuff. Lunch wasn't until 1:00pm so I was so hungry I had to eat some of the leftover Halloween candy they left out. (Two chocolates, not too bad) and a couple of gross tasting prezels that were trying to taste like the candy corn they were bagged with. LOL Thank goodness I'm not a candy corn lover. Luckily the food was layed out buffet style and we could add our own dressing. YAY! So I had about 1/3 of the lasagna and salad with minimal dressing and allowed myself two crutons? Sounds crazy I know. It does to me too. AAAAnd When I got home, I made hamburgers for dinner, only the meat that my son picked up from the grocery store (Dear STINKING Alberson's.. and they really do stink in their meat dept) was bad so we ended up having to go replace it and on and on an on and I just got things cleaned up. I had a few french fries as this is my "wild and free day" but they really tasted gross. I drank DIET soda..... :faint: which is something I can see myself getting used to now and then. I also tried the pumpkin chocolate loaf I made. Get this, I used only 1/5 of the oil that the recipe called for and substituted the other with applesauce and it was so moist. But.. .I didn't like it. Gross! Pumpkin spice and chocolate don't mix well. I'd rather eat just regular pumpkin bread. I also had some fritos... :sssh: and breakfast was a fast protien with carrots. LOL I wanted to start the day out right. :D No exercise today unfortunately. I didn't get to the mall to walk in time. No weight loss either.... :eek: Tomorrow will be a better day. BUT!!! The wonderful thing about to day besides Scrapping and Olive Garden and Coffe and etc. was the fact that the ladies from CM had a massager lady come in and we all got a massage for 10-15 minutes. OH WOW it was great. My Mum paid to have mine done and I decided that it was totally worth the 8 bucks she spent on me. LOL ' Oh dear this post is too long.... so sorry. Martin, I'm so proud of you! Great job on your diet and on your weight loss! SarahDon't get too discouraged. Like martin said, maybe a different exercise would be better for you? Maybe instead of running you could try walking on the treadmill. Do they have a walk level on them? Sometimes just doing something good for yourself during the day is enough encouragement to keep on keeping on. :hug: :dust: Hope tomorrow works out better for you and your joints don't hurt so much. :) |
Sorry Ladies but I don't know how to copy and paste so I just wanted to let you know Jasmine that I'm glad the ticket was knocked down and you will be able to make payments. We are in a bind here financially too right now because of my cancer from last year and all the bills. We are hoping to sell the house and get out of debt, yada yada yada but the housing market is like a mortuary right now. I know I didn't spell that right. Hehe. Good for you for getting back on track with you calorie intake!!
Melissa Good for you in choosing something lighter (I guess, I don't know the calories in Chung fu cuisine... :D ) I am learningn to retrain my taste buds and it's amazing the things that I want and don't want and I feel like my dieting has just started. This little network of suport is so awesome!!! Thanks for all the encouragment and comments, etc. :grouphug: |
sugarbaby269: Sounds like you had a great day! I love getting massages every now and then as a treat to myself. I have a friend that is currently going to school (3rd yr), and I let her use me as her practice dummy hehe.
No loss today, but no gain either! Yesterday was a day of no slip-ups, so that was my victory for the day. Today's meals, I managed to get a load of protein in :D Check'r out! Today's Plan Breakfast 1 cup Oatmeal 1 Lg Banana Snack 100g Yogurt 1 Kiwi Lunch 1 cup Cheddar & Broccoli Soup 1 oz Cheddar 1 slice W/W Bread 1 tbsp ICBINB Snack 2 Fat Free Rice Cakes 3 tbsp Creamy Peanut Butter Dinner 1 md Chicken Breast 2 tbsp Honey Dijon Marinade 1 Baked Potato 2 tbsp Sour Cream 1 cup Broccoli 1 cup 2% Milk Dessert 1 Mini Fat Free Read Dairy Milk Shake Pop Snack 2 cups Light Buttered Popcorn Water 1500 mL (bottle x3) Exercise Walking! I'm going to brave the cold. Tomorrow is a gym day. I'm going to try for about 30-45 minutes today, but I might retire to finish my walking inside today as it's really cold and snowy. Totals Cals 1992 Fat 82 Carbs 215 Protein 107 |
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I looked at it it looks great! Have you tried low fat sour cream yet? I also found that imperial butter ahs a 1/3 less fat butter as well! I see your fat grams was 82, what is the % though? It is looking pretty good thoiugh! Don't you feel better now you are eating cleaner? :D I'll brbr with how I am doing! |
Okay so Sat. turned out pretty good. I have been really craving bean and cheese burritos though and I know when I get like that I will binge if I don't get what I want so I decided to work them in to fitday instead of doing another chicken veggie rice day.
Okay so we have been running low on fruit that is why just one piece yesterday and the day before. But I got more on sat plus I am going to the big store monday! I had: 1 apple 32 oz of coffee 5tbs of creamer 1 slimfast low carb shake 2 slices of whole wheat bread 1 tbs of smuckers all natural peanut butter 1 oz of mozarella cheese 2 small soft taco size flour tortillas 1 cup of rosarita beans 1/3 a cup of home made guacamole sauce with tomatoes 1/3 a cup of plain rice So I ended up at 1515 cals 32% fat 49% carbs 18% protein Pretty good!! Today is my red meat and potatos day. Hooray! I also had a small victory. When I was out in town the other day i smelled the hamburgers and I wanted one so bad! But i told myself that is fine, but you already ate out at taco bell this week! SO you can have it, you just have to wait til next week! Then I told myself why not make them on sunday for our red meat nite! That way I can be in control of how fatty the meat is! I think it is rediculous that most hamb meat is 22 grams of fat per serving! I get the one that is 4% fat per serving! Makes alot of difference!! 1.8 apples .90 orange .50 a grapefruit .90 banana 4oz of 4% fat ground beef 1 oroweat potato bun 1 slimfast low carb shake 32 oz of coffee 5 tbs of creamer 1 slice of american cheese 1 cup of mashed potatoes(made with low fat butter and milk) ,50 cup of carrots .50 cup of brocolli 2 slices of whole wheat bread 1 tbs of smuckers peanut butter = 1615 cals 26% fat 53% carbs 21% protein Not bad at all!!! I may or may not add in some pretzels or popcorn later. I am taking the kids to the liquor store to get a treat and if I want I might get that. We'll see. |
SO I wanted to recommend to anyone that is doing shakes to try the slimfast low carb one. It has only 1 gram of sugar, old slimfast had 33 grams! , the new optima which I do like has 17 grams , which is better, but ya cant beat 1 gram of sugar! It also has only 6 carbs, protein is also 20 grams instead of 10 like the old shake.
I also wanted to recommend the smuckers all natural peanut butter. It has only peanuts and salt in it. No trans fat. It also has only 1 gram of sugar in it. I tried it yesterday for the first time and you do have to stir it up and keep it in the fridge and it taste a lil bit different cause it has less sugar, but I likesd it! Reg p.b. has I believe 3 grams of sugar. Does anyone else just love potato buns for burgers? I do! I ate them years ago at Cocos and I get the oroweat ones and they are always so soft and fluffy, I just love them! Almost like having a gourmet burger! ;) |
I forgot to report my stats! I was finally down .75 pounds this am which means I am down 1.50 pounds from last sunday! Hooray! I am not going to be disappointed this week and last was 1.5 each instead of 2.5 like I wanted. I am still losing and that is better than not losing at all! I plan on losing 2.5 pounds by next sunday though! ;)
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Well I went looking for stuff for you and now I am even more confused than before and I am so ready to just quit eating altogether! Some of you know that both my parents are dead at 52 and 65 due to problems with diabetes. SO the scare of that is one of my biggest motivators. I have heard that white bread, white flour, white rice etc is just as bad for you as table sugar. That instead we need to have 100% whole wheat and brown rice and brown this and that etc to infinity. So I have made alot of changes and have white bread sparingly. Now I went and looked for something and now I see it says that even the 100% whole wheat bread might be bad for me too! I am so mad!!! I have read if we eat too much protein it can affect our kidneys, too much fat well that is obvious, too little carbs and then we are on atkinds and you know how dangerous that can be. i am just so tired of all this crap. It just seems that no matter what we do it isn;t good enough! I am very frustrated. wheat bread Quote:
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Oh i was wondering where everyone is too! Guess its just you and me kid. ;)
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Well I'm here finally. What a lousy evening I had. I have the worst family members... no I don't I just have very high anxiety inducing family members who are fat phobic gossipers and love to talk bad about my kids and my family. I'm so mad!!!!! :mad: To have the nerve to talk bad about me in front of my daughter and then start in on my son! DD didn't know what to do and was so upset. After all, she's only 10. Good grief! Sorry I'm venting but all this stupidity almost made me go for the donuts that my kids brought home after being with the "family". Did I say Adam's family? :lol: I didn't give in to the donut I'm happy to say. I drank water instead.
Mande :cheers: cheers to you in not giving in to that candy bar! I was thinking like jasmine that maybe something was triggering it. I noticed when I eat a lot of carbs or sugar that I want more. I finally did what you did and asked myself why? No good reason. Now I try to ask myself what fulfillment will I have afterwards. I pretty much know it will lead to another craving and then another and then maybe a binge. I don't want to do that. I ask myself if I'm thirsty or hungry because sometimes I am and I just need to eat or drink some water. I have some diet jello on hand and I'm no sugar free fan of anything but lately I've been really developing a taste for sugar free jello and it's TASTY!! :T Even the diet rootbeer I had yesterday was good tasting. :shrug: I think I'm finally seeing that I will be able to adjust to this diet world after all!! :lol: Anyway, maybe that would help a sugar craving. They do have sugar free chocolate but you have to watch the fat grams in those things. You could try that too. jasmine Soo soo sorry to hear about your parents! I would be really motivated diet wise if my parents had had diabetes too. What a terrible disease to have. Speaking of disease, the cancer that I was diagnosed with having in spring of 05 was fallicular lymphoma. It's a non hogkinsons cancer and it's not curable but treatable for a an average of 10 years. I had an intense cocktail of chemo for about 5 months and went into remission where I'd just better stay, thank you very much! I feel so much better and I'm trying to get my body into shape from all the sterioids and garbage that it went through. PLus I'm fat on top of all of that. My doctor said that my metabolism should be kicking in now that it's been over a year and I can see that it is. Earlier this year I tried to exercise for at least 1hour a day and many times 2 hours but my body couldn't handle it and it took 31/2 months just to lose 4 pounds. I was so discouraged that I quit. But things are looking better now and I'm ready to have a life. :D You know, my sister is a nurse and she always is scolding me for getting medical information off the net. I have found some great sites for my cancer as well as other sites too. I was looking into liver detoxing at one point. Jasmine I think you just need to take a balance in whatever you do and just keep adding better whole foods into your diet. White flours and sugars are known to be so unhealthy. I have heard sprouted wheat bread is the best. It's so hard to know what to do. Like mande said, maybe just talking it over with your doctor or a naturopath or dietician might help you. You never know... the next thing you know we'll all be grazing out in the back pasture cause nothing is good for us even the grass... :D This is where my faith in God kicks in and I just have to trust him to keep me until it's my time, ya know? We can only do so much to make ourselves healthy. I can sure understand your frustration though. :hug: But on a brighter note, you ought to be totally commended for all that exercising you've been doing! MY WORD! I need to get that much in. You must feel great all the way around! :cheer: |
Oh and btw jasminethere's a test you can take on the 6 week body makeover that can help you determine what kinds of foods your body metabolizes best. It's really neat. It's free too. The test is. Check it out. My husband and I have different body types so he can tolerate more protein and carbs than I can. I really can't have a lot of carbs and sugars. Since I've cut down on them my stomach (indigestion) has went to almost nothing. I notice if I eat "cheap" carbs and not good carbs that I don't digest them as well. I feel gross too. Maybe that might help with your dilema?
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Good Monday morning everyone!! Ugh I'm so glad the weekend is over, I got that terrible mentality this weekend of "oh I'll hit it hard on Monday" not good and neither was I. Now this morning my allergies have gone into overdrive its as though someone poured cement into my head, even my face is all puffy. So now I'm wondering if it wasnt just the food choices. At any rate I'm starting a new plan today. I got the YOU on a diet book by Dr. Oz and I'm going to give the plan a whirl. The website you can do out menus and I filled mine out but the calories come out too low. So I may have to add another meal in there I suppose.
The morning is getting away from me! I'll have to catch up on your happenings a little later. I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend and is ready to have an even better week!! We can do this!! ~melissa |
2 pounds down this week. :)
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Well ladies I am feeling better this morning and I know that I am doing the right things health wise and exercise wise and I just have to let God help with the rest. I will not accept defeat and I will not let myself get into the mindset of no matter what I do it will be bad for me. There has to be some balance here. Sheesh! :hug: to all Well last nite went almost as planned except 3 of the kids went to a bday party and I had made 8 burgers! When raw they are 4 oz and after cooked they are 2.5 So I was a lil bad and had 2 of them instead of one but the cals for two are still only 300 altogether! plus 10 fat grams. Really not bad. I had one bun. I did splurge with a slice of real cheddar cheese though. I went ahead and nixed on the blueberry muffin though since I had the extra burger. SO my cals wound up at 1732, fat % was 27, carbs were 47%, protein was 26%, not bad at all!! I will go back and edit my food post up there. Oh and I did have some pretzels. But I substituted out one slice of bread and I only had one cup of coffee cause we ran out of creamer! :lol: I am in a good mood today! It is time to go grocery shopping today so that should be an all day event on the bus a few times. I am also going to go out and visit hubby for lunch, probably bring a sandwich for us. I read a great review on a sub shop that is like an hour from me. :( lol But it reminded me of a great way to get the vinegar and olive oil in my food more! How does a sub with cheese and trukey and lowfat ham and tomatoes and lettuce and a lil bit of oil and vinegar on the top sound? ;) I know subway has wheat bread but I dont think it is the legitimate whole wheat bread. You know 100%? I want to see what they got at the store etc today cause that just sounds so yummy!! Has anyone tryed pita pockets? Are they any good? Well the good news is I am down another .25 pound!!! Whoohooo!! I am starting the week off right!!! So I am officially down to 217 today. Hooray!! |
sugarbaby269: I have come to the resolution that that is a HUGE binge trigger for me; once I have it, I can't stop. With the pop, I used to drink ALOT of ginger ale, but since I joined this board, I haven't had any pop. While grocery shopping, DF found a really sweet deal on diet pop. 3 for $8.00 CAD. I ended up getting a case of Diet Ginger Ale, Diet Pink Grapefruit, and Diet Raspberry Cranberry. This was at the end of the week that we went grocery shopping, I've had 1 1/2 cans thus far. I used to "quench" my thirst with pop, but lately I've found that I'm not thirsty that often (probably because I'm drinking water even when I'm not thirsty), and when I do get thirsty, the first thought that comes to mind is water!
I'm feeling you on the family members. I have this uncle that is an alcoholic, and when he gets drunk, he always makes comments about what a big girl I've become, and how large my breasts are and such. My aunt just looks sooo embarrassed. One Christmas Eve we were over for Xmas dinner, and DF was with me, and he heard my uncle make a comment about my large breasts, and he almost lost it. We had to leave. It's a real shame when people start talking badly about your children. My father always hated that soo much because he had instilled so much time in to our self esteem, and then to have our other family members dash it right out. He eventually ended up moving us to another province, and kept contact to a minimum (I talked to my Grandma and my Mom, that's about it). What do you do to keep yourself out of those situations, I'm curious? And way to go on not going for the donut!!! Instead, just give your kids a BIG hug! From experience, I found that my father just being plain honest about his family was the best. I was able to accept that that was the way that they were, and it made it easier for me to confront them, and make the decision to continue keeping contact minimal. He never "bashed" them, he was just very honest about the situation. Good luck! Melissa: Come see us when you get that mentality! I was all over the board all weekend out of boredom :(. For the best, I think. Good luck with the new plan! I watched a video clip on Dr. Oz and the digestive tract, and I was really impressed! Let us know how it works out!! Tisha___: Congrats on the loss! That's fabulous! :carrot: Jasmine: Good on the burgers. A little splurge every now and again isn't that bad, as long as it doesn't turn out like my "little splurges" do :LOL:. After last week, I've gone ahead and switched straight over to Mozerella. I don't like one more than the other, so it's a bit easier for me. I do absolutely LOVE swiss, though!!!! And huzzah to your good mood! I was having trouble getting motivated today (hence why I'm still on here hehe), but your good mood has just given me this little burst of motivation, to get me going. Way to go on the loss! I know I've been on, but I just had to... DOWN ANOTHER 1.4! I had a really good weekend, and I was good, so I was happy to see the change! And I know this isn't typical, that to lose up to a pound or so every 1-2 days happens typically in the very first few weeks, but what a heck of a motivator! Have a good day ladies, and be back tonight! ~Mande P.S. I've noticed alot that people shorten my nickname "martiniforme" down to "martin." I think it's adorable that people are calling me martin. But when broken down, my handle is Martini For Me, because I used to be a lush :o Just a little history for ya guys! |
Hey everyone!!!! Long time no write. I have been busy with family and all. I have not been doing exercise. Yesterday went out to the park and did a little runing around. Today I am GIONG to the gym. I am going to do the Treadmill. YAY!!!! Can't wait. Well, ya'll have a GREAT DAy nad catch with ya'll later. Don't forget to drink your WATER!
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Hi everyone! How are you all doing? Okay so my computer has apparantly completely crashed now. Luckily, I get my check for Spirit Halloween this week so I can put it in the shop and have it out in like two weeks. I've been doing really good with keeping track of my points and I went walking for the first time in a long time with my friend Erica last night. We're going to meet up again tonight. TTYL!
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First of all... I have to confess after all that pep talk last night and being so proud that I didn't give in, the stress of family fell on me and I caved in and ate two donuts. Do I hate myself? NO LOLOL I'm still mad and I don't care at this point. But what I do find interesting is that I turned to food when I felt this way. I wanted to stuff those feelings down and not deal with the emotional pain from family disfunction. My relatives are supposed to be Christians. That's the sad part of this. Dear MIL apologized this morning but it just seems like it's an ongoing thing. Personally I just don't go around them if I can help it because it just causes so many conflicts. Some people are so busy talking that they can't ever hear anyone else. (dear MIL) SIL doesn't really like me. She is so catty. Thing is I don't know how a catty person thinks as I'm not into that sort of thing so I never have a come back or know really what angle to take her in. It's nuts that's all I have to say and for me martini, I just avoid the conflict but stand my ground. I'm not a kiss bum person. ;) I feel your pain about the alcoholic uncle. My Dad is one and it makes family gatherings really difficult too. I just hope when my kids grow up they don't feel bad coming home to visit the old parents. I don't blame your DF for getting upset about your uncle's comments. What a dork! LOL Sorry, I have an uncle who used to pick me up to babysit his daughter and he would ask me about my love life (when I was a young teen) and I would be casual about my answer and then not knowing what to say to him I would ask him about his and then he would go on to explain how he was bored with the same "mountains, valleys, platueas" etc making comparisons to his wifes body! :eeks: To this day he's a perv! I just ignored it and didn't even let myself hear what he was truly saying or I'd have flipped. He used to stare at me all the time and then kiss my hand and ew ew ew ew ew.... ew :barf: He wasn't alcoholic either. :yikes: I need to go to the gym but I'm really bummed today. I don't know if I will have time as I have so many errands to do and homeschool, etc. I can't set myself up for failure or I might fall off the bandwagon for good. :( So, I need to get myself in control here. I ate two donuts, now what? Birthday is coming up and I gained two pounds this morning when I stepped on the scale. :eeks: I think it's water retention because my fingers are puffy and so are my ankles. I'm sad... but good grief! Get a stinking grip! LOL :lol: Ok, Here's the scoop. I will go workout today before I go do errands. Then, I will get back with my diet plan even though I really need to get to the grocery store. :crossed: This is a true account of a real live fat chick that needs to go on a diet. LOL :lol: Jasmine, First of all congrats on your continual weight loss! You too martini!and Trisha! Melissa sounds like maybe you had food allergies or something? I've never heard of Dr. Oz but maybe there's a website out there? Good luck with the new diet plan and hope you get to feeling better. :hug: :) JasmineBoy, it sounds like you've had plenty of setbacks in your life. Look at you now though, you've taken control of the things that you can and you're making the best of it! Kudos to you! Reading about your mom with all of her health problems I couldn't help but wonder if they were caused by the drugs she had been taking. I know liver damage comes from that. Did you know that if you cause yourself to starve that you can get a fatty liver which leads to liver disease? I have a fatty liver and I know that from reading my CT scans on my medical records. Did Dear Doc tell me this? NO! He tells me nothing. I think that the internet is an awesome tool to research on and I'm not surprised that you feel that you know more than the regular doc about certain things. I did a lot of research before my cancer treatment so I felt I was well prepared when I went in to see the doc. He got mad when he heard that I did that and said you can't believe everything you read on the net. Thing is I went to forums with people who had the same cancer and read about all of their experiences. Some were worse and others prepared me. I think knowlege is power like Dr. Laura says. LOL :lol: Keeps you from being in the dark. I think it's a great idea for you to go to different sites and research the diabetes thing. Just keep things in perspective that's the best thing to do. Plus, you're doing the right things for yourself: changing your diet, exercising and losing weight! :cheer: Anyway, I don't really have time for a long post but the sprouted wheat bread is wheat that is picked at a certain time of maturity. It's not processed like regular wheat I guess. It's supposed to have less or no gluten in it? Something like that. I find breads like that in the health food dept or health food stores. Pita bread is great. You just stuff it with sandwich stuff. You could look online for recipe ideas. Maybe spreading the insides with FF cream cheese spreads and adding turkey, sprouts, tom, etc. might taste good to you. WW tortilla wraps are great too! You can wrap a tortilla with just about anything. The test for 6wks body makeover can be found at their website. I hope that helps. I Know I didn't respond to everything but I really need to get busy. Take care everyone and good luck with your dieting and exercising today! |
Please count me in !!!
Starting weight: 154 Goal: 120 Exercise: 3 mi. daily on treadmill. Water intake: 76 oz. daily SlimFast 2x daily and a healthy portion controlled dinner. |
What kind of scale do you all have? mines on the bum!
I weighed myself a few days ago twice and I was down 3 pounds. The followin morning I was up 2 so I really only lost one. Is this possible?
I was excited although skeptical about the 3 #. Then upset that it was only one. I guess I should be happy I didn't gain. Its an old scale, maybe I am due for another one. what kind is affordable but decent. How often do you all weigh in? |
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jelly: Good on you for going out to the gym! A little break is sometimes needed. Hope you had a good time with your family!
JasonsLea: Isn't it great getting in touch with long lost friends? I love it! Too bad about your computer, though :S. What seems to be the problem? sugarbaby269: I understand. It took me a long time to get to the point that I'm at, and it's not necessarily the right solution for everyone. Everyone has their ways of dealing with things that work best for them. I'm glad that you atleast got an apology, but I also know that sometimes it's just not enough. I mean, the best way to avoid having to give an apology is to just keep your yap shut in the first place, ya know? I lucked out with a good MIL, thank goodness! And we're pretty close. I've even got her hooked in to exercising with me, lol. Keep bearing down, and you'll break through this! P.S. Catty SILs will never be understood. I have a dumb-as-nails BIL, and sometimes I ask myself, "Where the heck has natural selection disappeared to?!" :LOL: Sherrie66: Welcome to our little nook! I see you are at a goal of losing approx. 25lbs. Is that by US Thanksgiving Day? Or is that in total? If it's your end goal, what is your goal for the 23rd of November? Glad to have you! littlegg: Great that you lost and didn't gain! I own a Weight Watchers digital scale, it measures to the .2 of a pound. It cost me about $45 CAD. I bought it at Home Hardware. I'm sure you can find them almost anywhere! I love it, and it gives me generally the same results. If I'm skeptical about a loss, I step off, and step on again another 2 times. And for the most part (give or take a .2 lb) it's the same! -- Today wasn't the greatest. I woke up at 6:30 this morning, and lazed around. I didn't actually leave my house until noon! I just could not get motivated. I was supposed to leave for the gym at 7:45, but I told myself I could always go after work. I finally got to work, worked only 4 hours, and then I did end up going to the gym thankfully! But this morning after I missed my gym appt, I binged. I'm not sure why. I kept asking myself why the entire time. Sitting before me was 1 Coffee Crisp, 1 Mr. Crunchie, 1 Kit Kat, and 4 Wagon Wheels. I sat down and ate the Kit Kat and the Mr. Crunchie and 1 Wagon Wheel. Suddenly I was so angry, I almost completely flipped out. And for the first time I wasn't mad at myself, I was mad at the reasons I binge in the first place. Well, that stopped me right in my tracks. Suddenly I didn't want it anymore. I stopped eating, and threw all that crap straight in to the garbage bag. But eating some in the first place set off another trigger response. I craved it the entire day, and ate a Coffee Crisp later on in the day. I ended up adjusting my meals a bit to compensate. And I know what the initial trigger was this time that got me thinking about it in the first place. The Forum: Chicks In Control. No malace to the forum, I think it's great! But not so great for me. I read about things like people's most craved food, about the foods people binged on, and the perpetual binging, and I just could not stop myself at first. Step 1. Extract myself from that forum, and stay as far away from it as possible, atleast until I'm actually a Chick In Control. I thought I was... ~Mande |
Good Evening everyone!! Stressful day lead to stress eating and now I'm doing that old guilt thing. Tomorrow is a new day!
Tisha...way to go on another excellent loss!!! You are doing so amazingly well!! Keep it up and keep that motivation going!!! Jasmine...another loss for you too!!! Way to go!! You are just doing so great! I really admire your dedication to yourself and your focus, I need it to rub off on me this week! I've used whole wheat pitas for crust when we do make our own pizzas and they work great. I also like to cut the whole wheat pitas into triangles and spread some hummus on them for a great snack. Keep on shining lady!! Mande...sheesh another loss here today!! Way to go girl!! You are just kicking some serious butt arent you!!! Excellent job!! I guess the weekend didnt knock you for much at all did it!! Its so great to see everyone doing so great! This is the motivation I needed tonight!! Keep up the great work!! You are just shrinking away! You will be that chick in control!! You are strong and I just know you are going to succeed!! jelly....how'd that workout go?! Lea...I hope you get your computer better soon! I'd die without mine I think. Excellent job on your walk I hope you had another great one tonight!! sugarbaby...dont even get me started on those family woes!! My inlaws (or outlaws as I prefer to call them) have been huge triggers for emotional eating for me for much much too long. I came to the point where I just cant give them that kind of power over me, they dont deserve it. I'm glad you arent doing that self hatred over donuts...they arent worth it either! LOL!! But you ARE worth this battle and I know you'll win! Sherrie...hello and welcome!! I'm using slimfast products myself, mostly for breakfast but seriously thinking of doing 2 a days. You are gonna love this group! Good luck on your challenge!! littlegg...your body will fluctuate all day and every day, the best way to keep the sanity is to limit your scale visits to once a week. Way to go on the loss though, you are doing so GREAT!!! Keep it up! Allergies still buggin this evening, must be the wind. I hate that itchy eyes and sneezing bit, but I suppose I'd take that over a cold anyday. No classes for me tomorrow but I'll be drowning in homework, studying...blech!! Is it spring break time yet?? LOL!! Have a wonderful evening everyone!! ~melissa |
Hi everyone!
What a wonderful group of ladies to come and visit everyday! :grouphug: Welcome Sherri!! littleggCongrats on the weight loss even if it wasn't what you were initially looking at! :cheer: I know that feeling cause I got on the scales this morning and had gained two pounds. I don't know what happened except I've had some water retention due to all the pickles I ate last night. Not telling what today's damage will bring. :( I guess the scale can go up and down so it's prob best to weigh yourself once a week. I get on hoping to have lost another pound. I think I'm going to make myself weigh in only once a week and get back on my diet. I fudged big time tonight and this morning. martiniI think it's just great that you are becoming awareof your eating habits and things that trigger binges or crazy food cravings. I think that's a big accomplishment in becoming a healthy dieter. I am just realizing these things myself. However, today brought some level of saddness because of the stupid family thing that I didn't eat anything all day except the two donuts and because I was still mad tonight I ate at Red Lobster and had chips and dip but ordered salmon and veggies. No exercise either. I'm still trying to figure out that punishment. But way to go on recognizing it and you are gaining ground, girl! Take one day at a time and keep on going. You're doing such a great job! Oh, and the situation with the SIL just got worse this afternoon. She's such a manipulator. You'd be amazed if I told you what game she is playing along with the MIL. Oh well, I have someone bigger watching out for me and I don't have to worry about their stupid pettiness. Sometimes friends in this life are closer than "family" members. I think the hubby and I are going to go out of town for Thanksgiving. Too much drama here. I hate to do that but I can't stand the stress and anxiety of all the game playing. melissaThanks for taking the time to post a reply to me as well as others. It sure is encouraging and comforting to have people helping out along the way. :) :hug: I'm sorry you had such an emotional day. Looks like we were in the same situation.We can do this though! Drink lots of water as jelli says and do something good for yourself. You deserve it!! Hoping tomorrow brings you a better dieting day. Leave the guilt behind because it just sets u up for more failures. Look at your ticker... you're going down, girl! Way to go!! :cheer: Tues: Walk the mall Eat diet of low carb and higher protein (white meat or fish) Gym (gotta catch up with my exercise challenge) Dinner going to Mcgraths for dinner so I will order something close to what's on diet. I will drink tons of water. I will HUG myself because I derserve it and I Hope I don't have drama at dinner with the OUT laws! :rollseyes: I can do it. I can do It! Go sugar GO sugar It's my birthday GO sugar! ;) |
Good Morning ladies. Well I had to step on the scale this morning for a little damage control I've just been out of control the past 3 or 4 days and thats gotta stop. It showed me being up 1.8 lbs, not as bad as i thought it was gonna be but enough to say hey...what the fudge are you doing??! I'm sure a few big bottles of water and a day of smart eating will see that disappear so thats the plan for today. I need to take my rear end over to that elliptical too.
Sugarbaby....dont let the outlaws get ya down! I'm lucky in the aspect that dinner with them really isnt even an option. I refuse to be in the same room with them, so I dont have the stress during the holidays either. Its hard because I know it hurts dh ALOT, but he's better off. Those are evil evil people who treat their own son as though he were nothing and he deserves better. At dinner just smile and nod, you deserve so much better!!! Big hugs to you!! Time to hit the books!! have a wonderful day everyone!!! Be good to yourself! You deserve the best that a healthy and fit lifestyle has to bring! |
Okay - I am in! I have been looking at this thread wondering if I could do it and now I know I can - or I can at least try my hardest. I want to lose 7 pounds by Turkey Day!
1. Starting weight - 235.0 2. I will be walking for 60 minutes 5 times a week. My goal is 300 minutes of exercise weekly but I am also planning on 2 hour sessions twice a week at the gym, crunches at home, and fitting it in anywhere I can. 3. For the next two weeks, I am following the Special K Challenge but mostly I am making better, healthier food choices. 6 more pounds to the 220's! :hug: |
:D Oh goodness you guys are to much I cant help cracking up specially when I can relate to the bath tub issue.lol I love hot baths its so relaxing I turn off lights and turn on scented candles and and bath salts and some nice music its all about me AND Relaxation when hubby gets home he joins me mind you we fit in tub now much better now that I have lost 34 pounds than before and in my case I'm the one with the spout on my back lol......my bath always ends in bedroom lol.:devil:
DRINK PLENTY OF WATER!!!!:carrot: Will go power walking today!!! 1hr |
hunnasgirl & my ivy :welcome3: Hun.e.B: No guilt! Only improvements. Do what you gotta do to keep moving, pick yourself up and dust yourself off because today is another day, and you can do this! The weekend treated me well, it was Monday that killed me. Haha. And up here I can never tell if it's spring. Around these parts we have practically 3 months of bitter winter, another 6 months of cold as winter, and then 3 months of summer :LOL:! sugarbaby269: You're absolutely right. I feel more empowered because I know where the problem lies, and I have the tools. I just have to utilize those tools more than I do :D I think a mini vacay for TG is a great idea! Might be just what you need to clear your head. And I want to go to the mall! We don't have one here :mad: LOL. We have to drive for 30 minutes to get a mall, and I don't have my DL! "Outlaws" :rofl: Time to get my butt in gear! Today is a new day, and I am totally in charge. I have a huge pile of stuff to get done, and the motivation this morning is much higher than it was yesterday. I managed not to gain, but didn't lose either, and given yesterday... NOT SURPRISED! :D Putting chicken breast in the slow cooker tonight, it's going to be so gooood! No fat's added, just water and a little marinade! Today's Plan B: 1 single serving pouch of Quaker Oatmeal, 1 Banana, 1 md Boiled Egg S: 100g Yogurt, 1 Kiwi L: 1 cup Cheddar & Broccoli Soup, 1 oz Mozza cheese, 1 slice W/W Bread w/ 1 tspn ICBINB S: 1 cup baby carrots, 1/2 cup Broccoli D: 1 md Chicken Breast (slow cooked, broiled), 1 Amazing Amanda Salad (1 cup Spinach, 1 cup Tomatoes, 1 cup whole Mushrooms, 1/2 cup chopped Mixed Bell Peppers, 3 tbsp Calorie-Wise Peppercorn Ranch) S: 2 fat free Rice Cakes, 2 tbsp PB S: 1 md slice W/W Bread, 1 tbsp jam W: 1500 mL E: 30 mins step machine, 30 minutes walking, 30 Calisthenics = 90 mins total Cals: 1807 Fat: 32% Carbs: 44% Protein: 24% I had to add a second snack in the evening (where there seems to be the most time without a snack/meal) so that I could get as close to 2000 cals as possible. I'm so not used to eating this many calories on a regular basis, and I can't wait until I can start lowering the number. I might add something to my earlier snacks to get up to 2000 cals :D |
Hello Hunnasgirls! And Welcome!! You couldnt have chosen a better group to join!! Good luck with your challenge, you can do it!!
Ivy...now thats a bath! LOL!! How'd the walk go? Mande...howd your busy day go? I love that you share your menu, it gives me great ideas and really gets me to thinking about my own choices! I did my grocery shopping today and made some healthy choices. I got the natural peanutbutter which always grosses me out with the oil on the top but its so much better for me so I'll give it a whirl! Busy day for me with the books and I've my meeting tonight. Back to the books for me!! I hope everyone is having a fantastic day!! ~melissa |
Martini~ Your Food Looks Good :hungry: Keep up the Great progress
Hun.e.B~:goodluck: With the peanut butter. It is a Good Fat, so enjoy My Ivy~ :cheer2: You go girl, with your Bath sessions Hunnasgirl~ :welcome2: Well, as for me I am doing good. Monday I did go to the gym and I did 35min.,2.80 miles, and burned 231. Not my best, but am I am rusty. I did jog for 3 mintues staright. It felt soooooo good to do so. Tuesday I did my 30min.Pilates and walked for 30min. Today I did my 3omin. walk, Later I gotta go again (pick my duaghter up from school) and have my heart set on the gym for another round. Well, ya'll have a GREAT DAY and make sure you are drinking your WATER!!!!! |
Hey everyone. I will have to get to responses later but i have been busy with walking almost two hours a day and cooking and cleaning and kids and buses and shoppping. I am in tears right now cause tom is here and it looks like my rent check just bounced cause of the stupid bank and my dh is going to try to fix this but the rent place might charge a $75.00 fee for late plus $25.00 fee!! I am so upset!!!! Please cross your fingers for me! :(
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