Sorry I was AWOL a bit. Just super busy - didn't have any chances to really read or check-in.
Everything is going well. I am buying a pedimeter today. Going to see how much I walk in a typical day and then try to increase that. Great meditation came in my box today:
Hazelden Meditation Series
We can choose to bloom where we're planted.
We're not always where we want to be. Frequently, the conditions and demands
of reality place us somewhere other than the spot we would have preferred.
Perhaps because of family considerations, job circumstances, or financial
constraints, we find ourselves physically located in one place but mentally
wishing we were somewhere else.
Our concentration and attention become divided, and we feel frustrated.
Since we don't want to turn to food to relieve the frustration, what are we
going to do?
If circumstances are beyond our power to change, or if we choose not to
change them because of values that are important to us, our best response is
to accept where we are and focus our attention on the here and now. Since
our lives are in the hands of a Higher Power, we can be assured we are
situated where we are supposed to be. Our task is to be fully awake and
aware of present reality so we can learn what we need to from this stage of
our life journey.
*
Today, I will strive to be fully present and contribute my best, wherever I
am.
thanks for posting that kat. being fully present is so important.
you guys, i went to the birthday party i posted about last week. i wore my new "fit me now" clothes and some new earrings. i got several compliments and was told that i looked beautiful! wow, i was floored. - regardless of the compliments i was happy with myself for staying present each day last week and not allowing anxiety about the party to trigger a binge. i was also happy with myself for getting dressed up and going rather than hiding out at home and eating. thanks for all your support here. hope everyone has a good week.
Ahhh, Lily - fantastic!! I'm so glad you went. And you're right, Kat - that is a good meditation.
I had a busy week, too - went to see DS' surgeon, and the news was good. We were afraid he would need another surgery on his skull this Fall, but everything's growing like it should, so we can hold off. Eventually, at 6 or 7, he'll need cosmetic surgery to bring his eyesockets forward a little, but that won't be as traumatic.
We had a shrimp boil with our parish on Saturday, then I skipped church Sunday to see Harry Potter. Aside from the Raisinets, it was great.
I think I'm ready to define my abstinence. Three meals a day, no eating between them. Pretty simple, I know, but my eating has been SO incredibly out of wack for the last year or two - it will be a challenge. I'm not going to restrict myself on WHAT I eat - but I won't be buying trigger foods, like M&Ms or garlic bread.
Hee hee - thanks, Cyndi. DS is my Darling Son, Matthew, in my avatar. He was born in August with a suture in his skull fused together that should've been open for growth. He had surgery at 12 weeks to release it, but it has recently fused back together (a genetic defect - but it should fuse anyway around 2 years of age).
Was it you that was reading The Purpose Driven Life? If so, I wanted to say that I am, too, (along with every other spiritual/self-help book on the market) and I'm really enjoying it.
Going to the vet soon. One of my cats has bad teeth so he is due for a cleaning. It won't be today - the vet has to check him out, first.
Lily, great job taking it ODAT!
Tracy, good news regarding your son!
Cyndi, I often read more than one book, too. DH got me into that habit.
Chris, Ellis, Christy, Jennelle:
Things are going well here. I am having trouble getting up for my morning walk. It's sort of a catch 22 - I feel better with the walk but I also have a better day when well rested. I usually go to bed at a decent time, too. So I guess I'll just do my best (what a concept! ).
I almost gave up yesterday. I tried to get out of walking too. My daughter made me walk. I did, and I was glad I did. I made it through the night, and I didn't give up and I resisted that binging temptation.
Just trying to keep going and think positive.
I never thought food (with me, it's sweets and chocolate) would have such a hold on me and be like a drug.
Yesterday I just had nothing to say. I went clothes shopping and was blessed to find that I wore a 14/16. I finsihed my step work, and now attempting to have just the day I am suppose to be having
Cyndi- Foods hold on me was just my part of my journal topic. I wrote a goodbye to it yesterday as my small god. The one that my brain tells me with make me fill better, and fill that void. Its always been a liar and worked exact opposite. I think we start to feel like its so much a part of who we are letting it go and finding out who Chris or Cyndi is without it seems HUGE!
Kat- I know the "doing what I can" instead of "what my brain thinks it should be doing" is quite the concept. YGG! ODAT!
Tracy- glad Matt is okay. And good for you for finding a definition of abstinence. Once again we take it ODAT
Lily- I am glad you went out and were feeling beautiful. I think it's the fear of what might be, instead of living in the now that is that can be tricky. In Yoga they say that the breath is the connection to the mind and the body, and within it is only NOW, a mantra for living
I am taking care of paperwork right now since it is the last week of work. Since I am a mini supervisor, I am checking some of my colleagues. So many mistakes! On stuff I have reviewed with them just days ago. AAAARRRGGGGHHHH! I realize it's no big deal in the end but I want to bang my head against a wall. These are initelligent women - so why do they need to be spoon fed simple info?
OK, done venting. I had another issue at work yesterday. It's a rather long story that I don't feel like getting into. It's all for the better and I honestly come out on top but it was frustrating. Let's just say I worked hard helping someone who ended up not appreciating it (I was in a supervisory position with her). I've had to chant "someone's perception is not my reality" a lot and pray to HP over it. I am left confident in that I did a good job and was a good cheerleader to this person. And if she can't see that, then it's honestly not my fault. It's too bad and a good lesson to learn (that not everyone perceives things the same way) but kind of disappointing since I tried my hardest and feel that it was a waste. My supervisor is on my side and very cool about it (she recognizes it as a perception issue), so that's good.
Cyndi, do you have a sponor or are you going to any OA meetings?
Chris: Congrats on the smaller size! I have been getting compliments lately which have been uplifting.
Hi Ladies. It's my birthday (shameless plug) and today my parents and I will be painting my kitchen my THIRD shade of green. Hopefully, this will be the charm! Then we'll have dinner and cake later. I've really felt good about my eating this week - just cutting back to meal times has helped tremendously. I'm sure my blood sugar was all out of whack from eating all day.
Cyndi - I know some days are so tough. You may slip up, but never give up. Your HP and your 3FC girls are here to support you!
Kat - I'm sorry about your work frustrations. There are a lot of social trolls in the world. You could be my boss anytime.
Go Chris on the new size!! That must be an awesome feeling!
Tracy may you grow in beauty, grace, and wisdom with each passing year I am glad your feeling good this week, thats the road to sanity
Kat, well thats the truth of the world isn't it. I had a sponsor who told me to not have any expectations of people and then I wouldn't have any resentments. It been easier for me to take them as they come then hold them to my standards. But golly gee some people can be frustrating (((((((((((((((Kat)))))))))))))))
Well where is everybody? Lily, Jenelle, Cyndi, and how about Miss Ellis????? Say howdy.
Oh I guess I forgot to say how I am. I am exactly where I am today
Chris
Thanks for the encouragement from everyone ((((((hugs)))))))
No, I don't have a sponsor or attend meetings. I guess I am thinking I can do it myself at home, with God's help of course.
I dunno though, I think I'm about ready to just say forget it. I feel better from walking now, and I feel less guilty in eating better, but the scales are not moving! I'm used to "lose quick" diets, and making the scales move, but then I gain it back. Back and forth, back and forth....etc
happy birthday tracy! how did the kitchen turn out? your DS matthew is darling!
kat, cyndi, tracy and chris - i must tell you all that you are an inspiration to me - funny, as i take the focus off food, life can be a bit boring -- not easy, but the drama is typically more mundane. this is not a bad thing. i don't know if this makes sense, but i am experiencing in my own life (and also through you all) the ups and downs of everyday adult life. a life not numbed by food i guess. i'm learning every day.
chris - what you said about what you called the "small god" of food being a liar is SO true.
me- i am doing pretty well. my goal were to eat when hungry & stop when full (nothing being off limits), exercise for enjoyment (not as a punishment) and to do something nice for myself every day. i've been doing quite well this week. my nighttime eating has all but disappeared. i'm just being a lot nicer to myself in general. it feels good, but scary sometimes - hard to explain, but it can be tough to do sometimes when it seems like i've done nothing to earn it - you know?
Weekly Check-In, 6/6 - 6/12
Aside from the Raisinets, it was great.
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I tried to get out of walking too. 
I made it through the night, and I didn't give up and I resisted that binging temptation. 
I am here!
On stuff I have reviewed with them just days ago. AAAARRRGGGGHHHH! 
I realize it's no big deal in the end but I want to bang my head against a wall. These are initelligent women - so why do they need to be spoon fed simple info? 
Hopefully, this will be the charm! Then we'll have dinner and cake later. I've really felt good about my eating this week - just cutting back to meal times has helped tremendously. I'm sure my blood sugar was all out of whack from eating all day.
(((((((((((((((Kat)))))))))))))))
, with God's help of course. 
