For me, the opposite is true (though when I was younger I also gravitated towards plans with lots of rigid rules, because I assumed that lots of rigid rules meant it had to be more successful. The more a diet sucked, the more I expected it to have dramatic, almost magical results).
For me, rigid rules make even the slightest slip seem like a huge tragedy and it can feel like "one wrong move" ruins everything.
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If you don't follow the rules, it doesn't work.
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This is especially what I mean. Some diet plans perpetuate the myth that one small slip somehow "breaks the spell." For low-carb diets it's often mystifying ketosis (ketosis doesn't guarantee weight loss - if you ate 6,000 calories of induction-friendly foods you could be in ketosis but not be losing weight. Likewise, being out of ketosis doesn't prevent weight loss if calories are low enough).
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the fact that it's been proven to work and is a "real" diet is what's really helped me stay on track.
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Calorie counting is a real diet, and it has been proven to work. I hate when people think that the only legitimate or real diets are those written in a book by a famous and popular diet book authors. Calorie counting, exchange plans, and even plans of a person's own designs are real diets.
If rigid rules help you, more power to you, but are you planning on sticking with the rigid rules forever? If not, do you have a plan for transitioning to fewer rules?
For me, that's the biggest problem with rigid rules. It's hard to adapt rigid rules into a forever lifestyle. I think one of my biggest obstacles in the past has been dieting by a method that I didn't really want to do forever. This time, instead I've approached weight loss "backwards," deciding what I was willing to do forever, and learn how to do those things.
I don't want to get to goal and have to change the way I look at food AGAIN.
Maybe you do plan on using rigid rules forever. Some people do, and do fine with it. It just doesn't work for me.