Hello to everyone here! I have been hanging around this site for months and have now decided to ask a question. First a little information about me and my "Issues" (don't we all know about those). My name is Megan and I will be 21 next Saturday. I have been overweight probably since was 4, but I was probably obese as early as 3rd grade.
I had never really seen my weight as a problem because I was very well liked in my school. I went through a lot when I was younger, but I always got through it just fine. Then, when I was 17 my mom passed away. I'm not sure exactly when, but I, being an emotional eater began eating A LOT!!!!! Soon, I got this idea that I could just throw it all up and I would be fine. This escalated to sometimes 3-4 times a day.
I got married at 19 and moved to Canada from the U.S. After years of being bulimic I decided to tell my husband last summer. I struggled to try to quit all by myself, but decided to take one day at a time. Well, I can finally say that I no longer have the feelings after I eat to PURGE PURGE PURGE!! I am more than happy for that because it was ruining my life and my body. I think the reason I finally decided to quit was because I was having heart palpitations, was finding it extremely hard to breath (did anyone else experience this?), and was getting light headed with headaches and I was becoming really scared. I know this will be a lifelong battle, but I believe I am a little more ready to face it now.
My question to anyone else here who is a recovering bulimic, is . . . . . did you gain weight after you stopped binging and purging? In one month I have gained 20 pounds and feel HORRIBLE!!!!!! If any of you are going or have been through this, how long did it take you to recover before you could begin doing a diet. I have been trying but I am having a hard time dealing with the restrictions. I would really like a buddy to talk to and for support as I am living in a strange country with no real friends and I have no mom to call to talk to either
Boy, sorry this went on for so long, but I really hope to hear back from some of you.
Megan