I used a BMR calculator that said I needed 2635 calories a day. To get even a 500 calorie deficit, I would need to eat 2100 calories a day and I would not lose weight. I have tried it before. So, what is the safest deficit I could do? I've heard it isn't safe to go below a 1000 calorie deficit. Even with that, I'd eat 1600 calories a day and I feel like I wouldn't lose weight. I don't seem to lose weight unless I'm under 1400 a day. Advice? I also do Tae Bo classes usually daily, burning at least 500, sometimes 900 depending on the class.
Also, when you're counting calories, do you also count the calories from fat in your daily number??
Forgot to add that I'm a 20 year old female with obesity definitely running in the family

