I eat much like prinny suggested. I absolutely LOVE Thai and I try to make light versions at home, but I can never match the stuff I get at the local joint.
So I pass on any sort of appetizer except the fresh raw spring roll thing (that I like). I order my favorite veggie-stuffed curry with chicken or tofu. I try not to use TOO much rice -- just enough for texture. And I make sure that I only eat half of what I'm served.
If I ate Thai food more often I would worry more about exactly how many calories it has. But I eat it out MAYBE once a month (although I do make it at home more frequently) so I just enjoy it in moderation.
As far as what I PERSONALLY enter in for calories, I assume that my curry is 100% coconut milk, and I'd say that I eat about 6 oz of the curry sauce along with the veggies, so I count that as 350 calories. I count my rice as 300 calories for a cup. The curry I get looks like it's probably got about 4 oz of tofu in it, so in the half I eat I figure about 85 calories for 2 oz of tofu. I don't add calories in for the veggies in the curry.
I think I over estimate the calorie count on the curry because there are lower-calorie things in there than JUST the coconut milk, but better safe than sorry. I usually eat about 1500 calories a day, but on a day I know we're going out for Thai I try to keep breakfast and lunch light and still end up well below 2000 calories for the day. I use it as a "high" day in my calorie cycling scheme.
So, that's how
I choose to eat Thai food. Your mileage, of course, may vary!
