Let's define the use of the word "starve" with regard to weight loss and message boards.
"Starvation mode" is is shorthand used on a lot of message boards for a fairly complicated metabolic situation. It's when you eat too few calories to support your metabolism and cause your weight loss to stall, but you're still eating enough calories to sustain basic function. It doesn't mean that you are actually starving to death. It means that your body is in panic mode and has stopped losing weight in order to preserve whatever nutrients you're giving it. I actually prefer to use the term "panic mode" rather than starvation mode, precisely because this kind of confusion happens.
True starvation is the next step down the ladder. It is possible to eat so few calories that your body never goes into the stall. If you're eating 500 calories a day or less (which I seem to recall is what you were doing on many days, Extasee), no matter how "panicked" your body gets, it's going to lose. There comes a point where your body can't recover from a calorie deficit and so you continue to lose. However, at this point you're not only losing fat, you're losing muscle. Worse than that, you're damaging your heart, your liver, your kidneys, etc. by not providing enough nutrition to them to sustain their proper function. Your electrolyte balances will suffer and you'll start losing organ function as time goes on.
When you hit the above point you are actually physically STARVING your body for nutrients. If you continue along that line, you will eventually starve yourself into the hospital and eventually to death.
Neither of these things have anything to do with the psychological feeling of being hungry or full or feeling "starving". Most of the time when we say we're "starving" hungry - as in "Gosh I'm STARVING! I could eat everything on the menu!", we don't mean from a nutritional standpoint. We mean from either a physical hunger standpoint (i.e. an empty stomach) or a psychological standpoint.
Your body needs a certain amount nutrition to function healthily. If you don't provide that nutrition, you damage your body. That's the bottom line. You HAVE to eat enough to nourish your body. From there, it's all about figuring out *for you* how much you need for nourishment, how much you can cut back to lose weight, and how much extra will make you gain weight.
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