Even at my low weight, I was still not a "bikini body" so to speak. While I felt much better about myself, I still felt "fat-ish" and I didn't have a firm stomach, and my hips and butt weren't nice and small. I do not gain muscle well due to a health condition that causes hypotonia (low muscle tone).
So, this time around as I lose weight AGAIN, I'm hoping that when I get to my goal I can accept what is. I think part of my troubles with the regaining of my weight is that when I get to where I wish to be, I'm still not happy with how I look. Then I get a bit down and think, well you're flabby anyway, have that cheesecake! And I end up here again.
I need to figure out a way to accept that I'll never look the way I *wish* I could look. I'm sorry if this is a bummer of a thread, I'm just hoping some folks here will have some advice for giving up the dream of "hot bikini body" and accepting the "no longer overweight 31 year old body that is mostly ok to look at."
Thanks!