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Old 10-02-2006, 08:41 AM   #1  
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Yesterday was October 1st and I worked until 2:30. Ryan, my boyfriend, was out of the city all weekend visiting family and friends. He got back before I got off work and when I came home I was a little irritated from work with crappy people all day on sunday.

We talked for a little bit, nothing big. We kissed and hugged because we hadn't seen each other all weekend. Sleeping without him is very hard.

Then he told me he loves me more than anything in the world and he can't imagine not loving me. He said it wasn't possible. Then he asked me to marry him.

I said yes.

And we kissed and giggled and snuggled and laughed until we were exhausted. We told our family and then went and picked out an engagement ring. He wanted to spend a lot, I wanted him to spend as little as possible. In the end I got a reasonably priced ring that will not make me feel freaked out wearing it and it is awefully pretty. I thas three diamonds and is delicate and sparkly. It is getting resized but as soon as I get it back I'll take pictures and post.

I'm so happy I could cry. I've been grinning like a fool since yesterday. It happened about 3:30.

My goal now is to get down to 170 by the summer of 2008. We are going to get married in October of 2008. I'd like to be at goal weight by the time I have to do a final fitting.

I've been stuck at 280 for a month now, convinced I'm never going to get below it. Some of it is my own fault, giving in to temptation, not weighing everything, not really wanting to go into the center because it is a far drive for me. Lots of things have contributed, including my body not really wanting to do it. I've stayed OP for weeks and seen no movement, so I don't know. I'm determined now, I have a goal! A bigger goal than I had before. I'm so excited, I couldn't wait to share it with all of you.

Thank you thank you all for being my motivation. I really appreciate it.

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Old 10-02-2006, 08:53 AM   #2  
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Awww, how touching. I was getting goose bumps just reading about it. I'm so very happy for you Sommer!! You will definitely get to your goal weight by the time your wedding comes and what a great motivator that would be!! Congratulations!! I'll be here pushing you to succeed in your weight loss!!
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Old 10-02-2006, 09:03 AM   #3  
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Old 10-02-2006, 09:21 AM   #4  
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Congrats Sommer! Such an exciting time...you'll be down to goal by then I am sure, wow!!!!
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Old 10-02-2006, 09:44 AM   #5  
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Wow! Sommer, such great news! I am so happy for you. Don't you worry, with all of us here, we'll keep you motivated for sure We can all do this together!! Congratulations!
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Old 10-02-2006, 09:59 AM   #6  
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Sommer - CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I TOLD you to get that vision of you in your wedding gown in your head!! Okay, it's time to start picking up all those wedding magazines and REALLY getting an idea of your dress, shoes, lingerie, etc. Start putting the photos in your head! YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!
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WOOOOHOOOOOO!!!! Congrats on the engagement!!
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Old 10-02-2006, 10:14 AM   #8  
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Congratulations on your engagement! Another 3FC wedding!
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Old 10-02-2006, 10:14 AM   #9  
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Any ideas what style of dress you want? Something that'll show off that new figure you're going to have. I am so happy for you - congrats and give that wonderful guy a hug from all of us chickies here in cyber space.
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Old 10-02-2006, 10:17 AM   #10  
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Congratulations! Talk about an incentive to lose weight! Really gives you a goal to work towards...Best of luck...can't wait to see the pic of your diamond!

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Thank you thank you everyone :-) I'm a big list maker...it feels so good to make a list and check things off. I'm going to put together a wedding binder and keep track of Everything and put lots of good ideas in it. I really can't start planning until next year because a lot of things could change between now and next October when I'll really dig in. But I can collect ideas!

I'm not sure what kind of dress I want, something plain though. I'm really not big on embellishment, you'll notice in the simplicity of my engagement ring. I do not want a strapless dress though. I plan to have the wedding outside.
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Congratulations Sommer!
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Old 10-02-2006, 11:26 AM   #13  
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Congrats Sommer-you deserve the best! And he sounds like a wonderful guy!
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WHOOHOO!!! Congrats!!
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Old 10-02-2006, 12:05 PM   #15  
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Sommer - Geez - I got all teary reading your post! Ryan sounds like a sweetie and I'm glad he let you help pick out the ring. Congratulations to both of you and while I certainly want you to reach your goal, you'll be a beautiful bride either way.
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