Cupcake, I definately feel like that person at times too. I think that even its more of a personality thing than a "chubby kid" thing. I really love people, and it makes me so upset to see other people upset that its almost as if i'm willing to sacrifice myself to make others happy...you might be the same way too. I'm struggling with it, but I find that I am at my best when I know what I want and what I need. People will think you are a better, more interesting, and more pulled together person when you are doing what you want and not necessarily dealing with everyone else's crap. Not to say you can't be helpful or sympathetic at times, just don't let them dump all their crap on you!!! I think that will make you feel the best about yourself! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! and also know, its not just you that feels this way