It is absolutely beautiful today.... days like this are rare in western Kansas... It is overcast with a little bit of sun, about 70, mild breeze... it is beautiful (in a few months it will be overbearingly hot, humid, and windy).
I really do love days like today, but I just don't understand why I feel the way I do... I don't even know how I feel.
I figured if anyone had any words of wisdom, it would be here at 3fc...
My problem is that I have housework to do, homework (a huge project due in 2 days), errands to run, and I have to take my hubby to the doctor this afternoon. I don't have class on Tuesdays this semester, so I am home all day if I want to be.
I feel zero ambition or motivation. All I want to do is sit around and eat. It is like something inside me is miserable and wants to keep me that way. I feel torn in two emotionally. Part of me knows I need to get these things done and wants to get them done; part of me wants to be outside and needs to be; and then the other part of me says "screw it all, be miserable and eat".
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This is truly the first time I have ever confronted this problem. It happens every spring and lasts through summer. Obviously I am not like this on every beautiful day like this, however it is probably an equal split.
So what did I do: I skipped my morning exercise because I thought I would actually make head way on my project. I didn't, I ended up reading other discussion boards that I belong to. I had breakfast (a healthy one at that). I had a not healthy snack at about 9:30, then I went to the store to figure out what kind of junk I could down today. All the while, I was thinking "what the **** am I doing????" "I don't want to sit around and eat, why do I feel this way?" "food doesn't even sound good, i'm not hungry, what is wrong with me?" But in the end, whatever driving need to eat and be miserable triumphed over my will power to resist it and I don't know why.
Now, I understand that I made a choice to eat whatever junk I shouldn't have. I know that I shouldn't have and only I am responsible for it. However, I also know that in order to change this problem, I need to, first, recognize it (which this is the first time I have ever recognized that this is not right); and then I need to figure out my emotions and why beautiful days like today cause me to feel miserable.
I don't think that I am depressed, and I am not sad - maybe lonely. Certainly I have no reason to be bored. I just don't know what is causing these emotions. I don't want to eat and be miserable. I want to thoroughly enjoy these beautiful spring days instead of sitting on the couch looking longingly out the window.
Any one else ever get like this? Any one have any ideas? Are there any books I could read that may help? I feel so lost with this.
I truly do not have a clue where to start to change it.